@helzaaaaa: with turning another year older these thoughts have been very present lately, I know comparison is the thief of joy but it’s hard, I struggle so much with feeling behind and that I’m not doing enough and I know I’m not alone! #dunkin #series #fyp #feelingstuck #chattyvlog @Dunkin'

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kaylaqtcoquette
kaylaqtcoquette :
We are all in different places in life. You’re not failing. Also it doesn’t help how expensive life is now.
2025-08-02 00:55:43
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kasiamichalekx
Kasia :
I’ve experienced this before and here’s what helped me. Step 1 was moving out of my hometown- it changed my mindset, routine, life, everything. And it got me out of that stuck feeling! Another thing that helped was creating a vision board with my goals. It’s super motivating and looking back at the end of the year you realize how much you’ve accomplished :))
2025-08-02 13:18:23
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kayla.lannigan
✨ k a y l a 🍄 :
as long as you are feeling happy and healthy, you’re doing the right thing 💕 most people aren’t genuine online & are probably married but depressed or faking being perfect. You never know!
2025-09-13 23:53:45
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rachjaye
Rachjaye :
Better to take your time than to rush into something! maybe write goals you want to work towards, think what would make you happy and feel fulfilled and write steps to achieving that. Good luck lovely x
2025-08-02 16:45:24
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livewithmomo
Mo 🕊️ :
I see what you’re saying, it’s hard not to compare
2025-10-17 09:06:06
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trinity.g12
Trin 💌🫧🍓🍫 :
This is so true girl. I feel so behind a lot of the time or sometimes I feel like I’m running out of time to like travel and accomplish certain things idk😭😭 I feel like society has set up the idea of this like “perfect life plan” but it’s so not realistic!! Everyone’s timing is different I just have to keep reminding myself that💖
2025-08-02 06:47:21
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lpnmeetsbookworm95
KayQ :
yumm that refresher is so good❤️
2025-08-02 14:16:51
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saylorvalin
Saylor :
I get it… but I am trying to just enjoy where I am in life! Just do you!
2025-08-02 16:27:51
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joeyyh15
Joey ♡ :
Give yourself grace pretty girl. You’re going at your own pace, and that’s okay. I do understand the pressure and I feel like a lot of what people post online is not always what it seems. What looks like a perfect life could not be behind the scenes. 🫶🏻
2025-08-02 21:20:46
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anniegggiggles
Annie :
Girl! I felt everything you said!! It’s definitely hard trying to find your place in the world! But remember you aren’t behind! You are exactly where you need to be!! But I definitely understand how hard it is not to compare ourselves to others!
2025-08-02 00:23:23
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samantha_amira
lifewithsam :
I totally get this! I am married and have my career, but I still get questions about when I’m buying a house, when I’m having kids, etc. I’ve just accepted that it really will never stop! It is definitely a society pressure to reach the “big milestones” but really those milestones is what YOU make it!
2025-08-06 22:27:56
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scscorpio_
Sumaiya | SAHM, Mostly ✨ :
Totally relatable, this is my 10 year high school reunion and feel like I haven’t done much since college also in a 7 yr relationship with no ring and def see everyone else getting there too
2025-08-02 00:27:54
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love.rearea
reagan 💋 :
aww thanks for being so real bestie! social media makes everything and everyone look more perfect than it really is. we’re all on our own path and timeline.. but this is so relatable and real 🫶🫶
2025-08-02 02:21:42
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thatgirlamzi
Amzi Nelson✨🍓🪩🧚🏼‍♀️💕 :
Girl I feel the being stuck thing 💗😭 we will get to our goals someday soon
2025-08-02 04:06:45
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soniapurohit1
Sonia Purohit :
I feel like Im so far behind in every aspect of life but Im still going on trips and concerts and I fear thats all I care for😭
2025-08-02 04:40:49
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alexxandrrraaa
alexandra🇲🇽✨🌸💕 :
it’s such a strange feeling i feel you girl i feel sooo behind too i see everyone traveling getting married it like stresses me out for some reason and yk it shouldn’t
2025-08-02 00:56:02
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amandaaaacastro
Mannn :
I’m only 20 and I’m on such a different path than my friends, but I know that everyone is on their own journey and I feel like that’s such a beautiful thing ❤️
2025-08-02 18:57:50
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jasmine.stringfield
Jasmine Stringfield :
I think it’s ok to feel this way!! I never ever thought I would get married and I did in my 30s. I wish I was further in my career and stuck with college but it’s ok!! Things will happen for you at the right time girly I believe it! Good vibes 💕
2025-08-02 17:45:40
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beauty.by.daisy1
Beauty by Daisy 🎀 :
You got this beautiful don’t stress it, things will fall into place at the right time 💖
2025-08-03 07:52:20
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jayejrosee
jassy 👟🍸💍 :
thanks for being transparent bc same here! all the people are having babies, getting married, etc and it’s so tough. I am happy for them but I’m ready for “my turn”
2025-08-02 00:28:28
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mickaylaoatess
mickayla :
girl i UNDERSTAND that feeling. it just feels like a plateau and can’t really navigate getting out of it
2025-08-02 05:15:12
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nat.sandoval3
Nathaniee :
So off topic but the quality of your videos is always sooo good 😍😍
2025-08-02 04:16:16
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katieamato1345
Katie 🧡🖤 :
girl, honestly dont rush. do everything at your time. no reason to rush into things you aren't ready for or cant afford. you got this girl. enjoy your life. ❤️
2025-08-02 07:25:23
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vivideangelis
vivideangelis :
You’re so pretty
2025-08-02 05:40:32
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sydneytheanxiousbestie
Sydney✨Your Anxious Bestie :
I relate to this so much. Comparison is the thief of happiness. We are all on our own journey!
2025-08-02 21:06:40
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