@kchangeseverything: Disclaimer: I have dated a a wide range of men (I’m 35, single and never been married). Throughout my dating life, I have come across enough men who will tell me they “prefer to date white women” and that’s an instant red flag — because WHY? Obviously I’m not against interracial relationships, however, I am highly critical. Most especially of my own. Please listen / read the words I’m ACTUALLY saying here, it’s not every interracial relationship but it is A LOT of them out here. It’s the men who say they “don’t date Black women” who are the real concern. As if putting down an entire group of women (the same group your mother, sister, aunties, etc are part of) is supposed to be a compliment? Hearing that shit makes me run in the opposite direction but it also has me wondering how my fellow yt women respond to this? Are y’all flattered when these men put down Black women? If so, that’s very WEIRD behavior. #phillytiktok #philly #phillytok #interracialcouple #interraciallove #interracialmarriage #interracialdating
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Saturday 02 August 2025 04:27:35 GMT
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alexismariaxo :
As a mixed woman I agree …I don’t date BM cause they always try to dog fully bw in my face 😳like nahhh gotta go …not disrespecting me or my family FOH! Last BM I dated was so happy that I went swimming w my real hair. I took him to the mall the blocked him 😂😂😂
2025-08-02 07:26:18
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W. :
A BM that I just ended things with and blocked literally told me he dated mostly non-black women because he *runs circles around them* which reminded me of my rule to never date BM that mostly dates non-black women, there is something seriously wrong when them.
2025-08-02 17:48:09
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leeloolabelle :
Yall better listen to her!
2025-08-03 11:52:37
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candiceyvonne08 :
And honestly, it’s not fair to ya’ll to be gaslit by them
2025-08-02 16:03:35
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tealikeayahuasca :
Ya’ll are learning🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾✨
2025-08-02 14:36:50
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theleeshofyour worries :
I lost friends holding them accountable for doing yt women wrong in these skreets.
2025-08-02 22:00:25
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SuperShellz 💪 :
💯💯💯 My uncle married WW because she was the easy way out, didn't face any consequences for his actions, and he could treat her poorly. He didn't expect for her to get sick of his 💩 too! 😂 "The divorce came from nowhere!"
2025-08-02 14:25:33
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ALA :
Yes also it’s self hatred
2025-08-02 11:36:32
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MissOsirisrose :
The preferences are learning ✨
2025-08-03 05:29:56
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dezdubler :
somewhat true but let me break it down for you. black women are some of the most beautiful and prettiest women in the world. when you grow up all your life around the same black women it's kind of like growing up with your sister. You Love your sister but you don't want to date your sister. it's a whole other world out there. so guess what? you want to date everyone except your sister. it's just that simple. unfortunately black women aren't mature enough to understand basic facts and biology. so they've develop an inferiority complex. they think because black men like white women they should act like white women and groom themselves like white women. unfortunately black men hate this. We want too white woman to be white and we want our black woman to be black. is that too much to ask?
2025-08-03 03:48:35
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Melanie Kellerman Br :
This may be true for some.. I definitly get what you mean. But also don’t want to generalize all interracial relationship. I know some BM/WW marriages and wife does not put up with BS. there is genuine love and mutual respect and He does not degrade or disrespect BW. So while I think there is some truth. There are exceptions to this.
2025-08-02 11:53:20
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Bridging the gap :
It’s internalized self hatred and they can get over on yall more. A lot of them don’t feel good enough for us, thats why when they date yall, they stay talking about us. 🤷🏾♀️
2025-08-02 19:14:19
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Charnae Mundy :
I’m glad yall know that!!
2025-08-02 18:48:01
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Tee :
You’re right but there is still more to recognize as to why they do that. Keep digging and listening to BW
2025-08-03 11:34:42
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‘broidrage :
Correct. Men dating you because of what/who you are not is never a flex. WW deserve better too.
2025-08-02 16:22:45
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misterdirect :
Any woman dating any man should hold the man accountable. Even as a friend. I’ve been in rooms with many black women and many white women. The Asian woman, the white woman, the Latin woman will speak to me. The black womam will sit and expect me to speak to her cause she’s black. I love women I love their spirit and softness. I love them for all the good and crazy. But nobody is my momma and when any woman tries to be my mother she gets ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾.
2025-08-02 14:56:13
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Brie Alexis :
YOU SAID WHAT YOU SAID 🎯
2025-08-02 13:50:25
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T 🤠 :
If he names positive things about YOU specifically (the reasons why he likes you) that’s a good place to start. If he’s naming things he dislikes about other women, not a good place to start.
2025-08-02 21:56:33
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Red Herring :
I would be very careful with generalizing. Many black men grew up in households hearing their mothers talk about "how black men ain't 💩". Too many times, firmness is conflated with verbal abuse, and in some families, a child's attempt to deescalate conflict is met with more verbal abuse.
2025-08-02 15:48:05
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LapeUsmc :
I respectfully disagree. I would say dating period, has to do with past experiences and preferences. Respectfully of course
2025-08-02 12:07:34
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jahboe11 :
😂😂😂 Sounds accurate
2025-08-02 23:19:26
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jdouglas2705 :
Thank you for your honesty!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
2025-08-02 12:14:37
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AyeBlessing :
You’re right. Ppl are flipping ya words but you said what you said.
2025-08-02 13:05:27
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Shell :
Yeah we know
2025-08-02 19:15:20
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kia_carmichael :
I stayed away from it also bc you told no lie and they know yw will put up more bc children are involved which I get but after about 2 years of nothing from him he more then likely will be left
2025-08-02 20:04:54
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