I’ve come to realize that I’m grieving for the fantasy I’ve created even though the abuse. We’re grieving the fantasy not the narcissist. Recognizing your mistakes is your first step to healing. ❤️🩹
2025-08-06 11:31:28
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garyandrews495 :
💯 they live in a fantasy, so they sell you a fantasy they know your gona buy into. You end up desensitizing and being numb to the chaos and drama as a norm way of life 😳 now life with peace, silence and reality seem no longer normalised but a strange existence 😩
2025-08-05 08:27:41
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Rosie's Kitchen :
wow this is a tough one😔
2025-08-11 22:13:27
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Lisa Thomas9075 :
I've only just gone no contact a few months ago it's been really difficult am left with poor mental and physical health after years of being in fight or flight, his sister messaged me as he was blocked and told me he has bowel brain and liver cancer, I am fighting my empathy to go no contact am so confused and conflicted and almost guilty.
2025-08-12 17:25:43
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user2293323558437 :
so true
2025-08-09 21:54:50
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taniaagathou :
grieving for the good moments grieving for the dream I made together with him and grieving for my lost self 😢😢😢. I feel this is eternal.... with him living so close. 😢😢😢
2025-08-04 19:20:58
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mag :
Ive never heard such a truer word ..
2025-08-05 05:56:54
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Patches Pawtique :
This is me!!!! It’s crazy! It makes sense but also makes no sense, I’d love to just not grieve over such a shocking relationship. I’ve moved on in so many ways but everyday I grieve someone that treated me so badly.
2025-08-04 22:33:31
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Legalizeddrugdealer=nurselife :
No contact is the hardest thing I've ever had to do, leaving and letting go of someone you love and that has destroyed you mentally is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do!
2025-08-11 18:02:53
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Bonita B :
Bev, you're so insightful! Always sp🎯t on!
2025-08-06 16:04:47
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Zue B :
All so true!
2025-08-04 19:28:10
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perrxschingonxs :
I grieve for lost time. I was estranged from my family. During those years I lost my grandparents. Lost time with so many family members 😢