@alexanderbdixon: He’s not mad at you… He’s mad at how you make him feel about himself. When a man hasn’t healed, your disappointment feels like rejection. That’s why he avoids accountability. This is the mask behind the man. Part 4 🍿👀 #foryou #fyp #datingcoach #relationshipcoach #healing #traumahealing #Love #datingadvice
He did lie and he didn't keep his word. He was emotionally chaotic. The gaslighting was a betrayal. I suddenly saw a monster in him. It pushed me away. It felt unsafe. He was unhealed and I all I was trying to do was love him to help him heal but now I don't believe he really wants to heal.
2025-08-05 02:35:15
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Vicki Richard :
I understand they have trauma, we all do. But that is not an excuse for bad behavior. He's grown and knows right from wrong. PERIOD!
2025-08-05 20:11:32
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MzEClass :
Then we end up enduring his trauma bc he refuses to honor his word or be accountable for not
2025-08-05 04:59:32
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yana🦋 :
can’t build on rocky foundation
2025-08-05 22:37:27
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Qua :
I think the overpromising is a extension of his ego try to prove his more than what he is and who he's willing to become its sad!!
2025-08-05 12:46:08
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naneraass :
Where are they hiding the healed men?
2025-08-06 04:59:38
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Kristina | eats real food :
This sounds like a him problem. He is responsible for healing his past trauma. Lie and cheat, it only reflects on him as a weak man. I refuse to mother unhealed trauma.
2025-08-05 20:42:39
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BreakUpTherapy :
I can’t deal with another false promise 💯
2025-08-06 04:43:10
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DondeEstaLaBiblioteca :
If they don’t like to feel like they disappointed someone one- rejection. Why do they keep inflicting it on themselves?
2025-08-05 11:56:48
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Clarice Swinney❌️ :
Then he causes trauma to her because of it. They just need to grow up and take accountability. It begins with knowledge and a men movement to help those needed to learn how to and to teach them what healthy actions and accountability looks like.
2025-08-05 14:06:22
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Angie :
Definitely ghosts, and is emotionally disconnected no communication
2025-08-05 05:47:24
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PRESSURE_PHILLY!!!... :
That’s exactly where the disconnect & disrespect came from it was everybody else fault never his played victim no accountability for not doing what u said u was gone do but want trust & respect nope!
2025-08-06 12:18:33
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Jeana Cappra :
well then he has no business being in a relationship in the first place especially if he's not ready for it 💯
2025-08-06 04:56:52
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ladii lexxy :
so so so true!! I still tried to be there for him through all of that but it wasn't enough so I had to go
2025-08-06 01:55:10
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GetEm :
current situation
2025-08-05 22:16:12
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Nick :
i made promise never to leave him and kept them until it was at my (mental) expense. I only asked him to make one promise which he could easily have kept and he didn't... Don't you think women aren't scared? Do you think it is easy to open up and show our vulnerable self? ... It's not a men only thing. Both parties are to be held accountable. After what he did and did not do, in his stead, I could look at myself in the mirror anymore without feeling deep regret and shame. And the saddest part, it didn't need to go so far... Very very sad
2025-08-09 12:18:44
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👑QueenLola :
That's true 💯✅️
2025-08-06 13:09:19
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Tamra Ann :
💯 And we end up trauma bonded heartache and pain we have to heal from
2025-08-05 13:10:54
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britheleo :
The lying to yourself!! Sheesh. Yes, We peep it all & give grace & support you bcus we love you. It’s ok to not have it all together & you don’t have to pretend or sell me a dream. Ego will destroy you. Honesty & vulnerability is the way we grow, learn & trust.
2025-08-06 10:34:35
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Purplenycme :
💯❤️🙏❤️WOW!!! smh
No clue who you are...but...you are on point.
2025-09-01 20:31:48
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ThemeParkQueen :
💯💯💯
2025-08-05 01:44:10
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Truth Bomb Therapy :
His anger isn’t about you—it’s about the mirror you hold up. A healed man sees reflection. An unhealed man sees rejection.
Question: What’s one behavior you used to take personally that you now understand had nothing to do with you?
2025-09-03 15:02:10
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NeNee✈️💋 :
Leave that trauma at the door🙄🙄🙄 or leave that woman alone and at peace 🙄
2025-08-05 09:45:11
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