@lisa022468: 145 1st dates in 4 years Ladies, where are the good men? #unicorn #matchmaker #middleagedating #middleagedwomen #womenonly #genx #datingstorytime #
Met on bumble. But he’s in MI and I’m in WA. But 4 years later, it’s great. Built in boundaries, don’t have to compromise everything, move homes, coparent kids etc. Works really well!
2025-09-01 16:48:55
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user2368500916548 :
At what point do we look in the mirror and say “is it me?”
2025-09-29 18:30:39
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Susan Selliken :
Single for 28yrs, 63yrs old now! Met in the wild and he is 20yrs younger and been together for a year! Meet in the wild, so much better!
2025-08-08 23:51:20
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FATCATHAWK :
How do you say “ I haven’t had to pay for dinner on the weekend for 4 years”………..😉
2025-08-07 13:44:12
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Ican’tbelieveyou’rethatdumb :
Ok, late 50’s guy here. I disagree with most of the comments from other guys I’m seeing on here. After my divorce, I got on a couple dating apps and I went on about 60-70 first dates in under a year. Some of the women just weren’t a match, some were so far off from their profile (looks, age, weight etc) that it should have been considered fraud. I have no doubt that Lisa and many other women experience the same thing. I think you’re doing it right. I think I got lucky in meeting my wife 60-70 dates in and that was 6.5 years ago and it’s been great ever since. It’s just not that easy to meet someone at this age. We have some seriously developed ways in which we live and see life and that makes it that much more difficult to find a match. What I will say is don’t be afraid to go on a second date with someone that was just “meh” on the first date. There were NO sparks on the first date that my now wife and I went on. It was perfectly fine, but neither of us thought we had met our forever partner. As we really got to know one another, the bond grew to something neither of us had ever experienced. Good luck Lisa!
2025-08-06 15:55:37
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socalkjcyv0 :
You really get around 😂 Huge body count
2025-08-14 23:16:33
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rooster :
I moved up north and no woman is taking my lake home my peace and I retired early to live lon😏
2025-08-08 08:58:19
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Lane Tanaka :
I have told some of my female friends to date date date as long as you walk at the sign of any and all red flags. Do not kiss even a peck until at least the 3rd date and just find that needle in your proverbial “hay stack”
2025-08-08 15:16:22
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Ski2Saddle7 :
Were you married before?
2025-08-06 05:47:17
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kimberlytodd1018 :
I met mine at a ranch where I ride horses. He used to ride there and was getting back to it after his divorce from 2 years prior. My advice: do what you love so you find people with similar interests. Even if you don’t meet a man, you’ll make new friends and have fun!
2025-08-09 13:51:04
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slim :
What’s the common denominator?
2025-08-07 21:19:26
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AprilKruegerVanTassell :
I went back to college at age 37, and married a professor! We've been married 33 years.
2025-08-08 03:44:32
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Maximus Decimus31 :
147 variables and one constant 🧐
2025-08-07 15:12:41
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paulphillips143 :
get away from that eye candy and you will meet that man till then just eye candy
2025-08-06 11:37:05
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MayDay :
If you want to meet men like that, take sailing lessons and shop at REI on the weekends.
2025-08-06 22:56:18
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Brian Wohl :
I have a landscaping company and I met my wife when she can over to visit her elderly aunts while I was doing a job for them! When I saw her I was like no way I have a chance but I kept bugging her aunts about who she was and they finally gave me the scoop and got me set up to talk to her! 😂😂 the rest was history!
2025-08-08 10:06:11
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osidegal :
I met my wonderful husband in 2011 on Match. After I dated on/off from 2004. Unfortunately, he passed away in 2022. 💔 Started dating again in Summer 2024. Found a great bf in Fall 2024 on FB dating. I have everything you listed. He enhances my life.
2025-08-07 20:27:08
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sclark2001 :
Can you list 147 reasons why you rejected them? 🤣
2025-08-07 13:53:30
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Sticky.Vicki ❌ :
I had no luck meeting anyone. After about 40 first dates, I finally couldn’t take the emotional strain and removed myself off all dating apps. Now I just enjoy my peace.
2025-08-08 05:46:39
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Banjo Davis :
It’s tough out there. I’m 48 and a widower. Being back in the dating pool is not something I imagined would happen at this point in my life.
2025-08-08 17:48:42
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Rafa12 :
Lisa... Yes... This is a tough age... Dating scene is chaotic now ...15 years ago it took me 250+ attempts, 56 real dates, Joined church singles group, the winner= EHarmony site. ..found a wife!... Keep taking action! Stay strong!
2025-08-07 19:20:19
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Dave Goodfellow :
online dating has gotten me into 12 first dates in 15 years. most I thought were perfectly nice very dateable women, I guess I'm not someone they can tolerate for more than 90 days or so.
2025-08-08 20:21:32
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