Westfalia :
Here’s the higher-level truth as I see it: It’s not about erasing them. They are literally part of you, so of course they’re on your mind. That’s not wrong, and it’s not a barrier. The “forget them” idea is really pointing at something subtler: you can’t attach your happiness, healing, or sense of self to whether or not they’re showing up in 3D right now.
Union happens when you release the grip, not the person. Think of it like holding a butterfly: if you clutch too tight, it can’t move; if you open your hand, it can land freely. The energy balance comes when you’re steady in yourself, shining your light, while also allowing them to move toward you in their timing. Them being on your mind isn’t the issue. The question is: when you think of them, does it drain you (longing, fear, waiting), or does it expand you (love, joy, peace, inspiration)? If you’re in the expanding category that is alignment.
Spirit doesn’t need you to “forget” them to bring union. What Spirit is asking is that you keep your frequency anchored in love/light and not in “lack.”
So no, you’re not “blocking union” by carrying them in your heart and mind. That’s natural. The only thing that blocks it is if the thought of them pulls you out of your alignment with yourself.
Here’s a reframe: your twin being always on your mind isn’t an obstacle — it’s proof of the bond. What matters is how you hold them there: with peace and light, not with tension or demand.
2025-08-19 17:50:45