this seriously helped I really needed to hear this today, thank you so much. <3
2025-10-10 10:52:12
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Sarcastic_psyche :
im and ally, I swear. but for the love of God words should have some kind of meaning, idc how many words you need to invent, invent them. but seriously why even have these ways to help identify ourselves and others in the community if "it all means nothing". yes everything is a social construct, but can we please let things have definitions
2025-08-12 16:15:27
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Lily :
Stole this from a random person
2025-08-13 22:57:20
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crowaway_ :
As long as you’re not hurting others or disrespecting cultures you’re chill.
2025-09-18 02:45:24
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LaDeX :
I'm supposed to be having ties to a community? I'm 35 😅
2025-08-11 19:38:45
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Mackenzieo2o :
please guys understand you do you your loved and remember when you remember your who you want to be it should fill u with determination
2025-10-10 19:42:47
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Opossum 🐾🦊/📼🌀/📼🪱/🪻☀️ :
I'm a trans guy and I still like long dresses
2025-08-11 16:38:46
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No117800 :
I'm not first
2025-08-11 16:37:42
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Niko🪆☀️💏 :
I wanna go on just a small amount of T and have top surgery and dress and look sort of like what’s considered feminine but still be considered a man and I constantly feel like I’m not “trans enough” because of all the standards transmeds set 💔 I just wanna be me
2025-08-11 16:54:20
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Ehreneisen 🏳️⚧️ :
My whole realizing that I'm trans happened within the span of the past *weeks* and it makes me so anxious because I question how valid it is for me to have reached that point so quickly and "non-problematically" without trauma- like I don't deserve to be trans because I don't nearly have as much year long buildup to it as others- but I just *know* that I am by this point and came out to friends. It's just scary for some reason- the fear of being judged
2025-09-26 00:25:36
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-🌕🐁 𝕽𝖔𝖇𝖇𝖎𝖊!!! 📼👁️- :
everyones valid but yk words have definitions that people have fought for. you don't have to fit exactly into that definition to use the label it's all fluid but as long as it doesn't go directly against what that word means
2025-08-12 10:40:56
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Aqua✨️ :
I NEEDED THIS SO MUCH THANK YOUUUU!!! I'm a demigirl (so nonbinary), with she/they pronouns, and istg every time I present more femm I get anxious that I'm "not nonbinary enough". When my whole gender identity is literally 50% girl 50% shapeless blob.
You're my internet big sister about queer culture frr, so thank youu!!! 🩷🩷
2025-09-30 16:26:24
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勝詩花 :
I am a cis women but I LOVE being called all pronouns, they especially but it feels wrong sometimes
2025-09-26 23:52:28
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🏳️🌈 Avery 🫠 :
Tbh, I consider myself a cis woman but I love male honorifics and enjoy playing with masculinity but I fully identify as a woman. WHO CARES?! As long as we’re all respectful of eachother and comfortable with ourselves, who cares. ❤️
2025-08-11 17:34:32
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𐂯⊹˚⋆୭🪱օմթ ୭⋆˚⊹𐂯 :
as a young queer kid myself I find this a really helpful video, although I'm quite confident in my identity, mostly everyone is bound to question their identity at some point.for me,I find that when I become most comfortable within my identity is when I accept the fact that I don't need validation to feel comfortable in my gender / sexuality. (I think there is a lot of discourse around he him lesbians) I don't think it matters tbh I don't know why we are oppressing each other.
2025-09-09 12:00:39
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heldenautie 🍉 :
I think a lot of this is the product of transmedicalism and the appropriation wars (specifically white people getting super caught up in it) conflagrating in this concern that anything less than binary trans identity is stolen valor.
2025-08-12 17:36:39
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Khonshu's Favourite :
19th video of urs on my fyp, 2nd day of ur videos on my fyp... still definitely questioning everything
2025-10-04 05:38:36
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Pink 🌺 :
my concern is less about the validity of what I want to become but rather if I can even achieve what I want to become, do you have any advice on that? I know it's a bit general
2025-08-11 19:18:24
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warpdebates :
I just call myself genderfluid and call it a day
2025-08-12 18:03:53
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JAXX :
Put this better than I ever could have, thank you for being you!
2025-08-29 21:09:17
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Azra ☾ :
tbh where I draw the line is hurting other communities and being disrespectful of their history, which is why I'm still very hesitant when it comes to labeling myself as a femme bisexual. I'm reading as much queer lit as I can about butchfemme culture but in the end the lesbian community is divided about this question too, so I'm staying careful about it
2025-08-11 22:30:30
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Genesis 🎬🦊 Commissions open! :
I’m a trans guy, and a femboy… I’m bi but even when I’m with a girl that isn’t “straight” basically I feel queer about women just as much as men… some days I feel like I’m one of the girls… and sometimes I wanna go full “goblin mode” while other days I wanna lurk like a cryptid or a ghost! And yknow what… I’m still valid. 😌
2025-08-12 04:01:33
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