from a legal standpoint, it's dangerous to not be married to a man you have children with.
2025-08-12 20:49:12
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keyahmahni :
If anything just sign the papers. Have the wedding later it just makes things easier if it does happen
2025-08-12 20:16:48
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gia :
Oooh girl my mom did this w my stepdad, was engaged for yearssss for the same reason you guys are waiting, my stepdad passed this year. They never got married and so my mom technically wasnt entitled to absolutely anything he owned/had and neither were his step kids but he helped raised us so practically kids, regardless of the fact his family was never around. My point is theres too many risks to wait! Tomorrow isn’t promised and unfortuantely you literally never know what might happen..
2025-08-12 19:46:54
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y2kkams :
okay, so when is the wedding🤣🤣🤣 they’re old enouhj to
2025-08-12 19:27:11
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Ηλέκτρα :
“what if he died” what kind of question is that 😭
2025-08-12 19:25:53
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mya 🦋 :
it baffles me that people actually care this much
2025-08-12 19:24:04
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kakehoo :
Also wedding culture is a scam I’m not feeding into that
2025-08-12 21:27:15
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deedee lopez :
“What if he died” then you wouldn’t be married 😀
2025-08-12 19:24:45
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user8166325222453 :
you aren’t married ?!?!!??!!?
2025-08-13 03:27:16
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sbhbufditxju :
who dis?
2025-08-13 12:20:42
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Shanniah :
Me and my fiancé were engaged in 2019 and we just got married this Feb 😂😂
2025-08-13 21:12:23
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Courtney Clamp :
Oof this comment section. I’ve been with my significant other for 11 years and we’re having our second kid in a matter of weeks. No plans to ever get married. Do people not realize that wills, trusts, the ability to designate beneficiaries, medical power of attorney documents and more exist and are equally as powerful as a signed marriage certificate?! Anyways, I feel seen. Thanks for sharing.
2025-08-13 02:34:27
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JT :
If he’s the primary worker outside of the household, you’re not getting his social security benefit if he passes away. You also want to be able to make medical decisions. Even if marriage itself means nothing to you, then “just sign the papers” and protect yourself and your children… there is no reason not to. Divorce is not the end of the world, sign a prenup if that’s a concern.
2025-08-14 02:05:43
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Isa :
Just make sure you're legally protected 🤎 Give each other power of attorney and have a will so that if anything happens, your partner can access your assets. Easiest way to do this is to get married and just not tell anyone lol, but there are other legal pathways you could take too. Other than that live your life!
2025-08-12 19:45:00
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ames :
My parents got engaged in their late 20s, planned a wedding for the year after on May 4. Mom then found out her due date was May 4, so they cancelled. They had my sibling, then 14 months later I came along, then my brother. Mom went back to school when we were 4,8,9. She finished when we were 8,12,13. Then dad went back to school. They got married when we were 12,16,17. Life gets busy with kids + your own goals (which, shocking 🙄, isn’t always marriage). ♥️
2025-08-12 19:53:50
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Claud.Huzar :
ahhhh how i miss when marriage used to be more than a piece of paper to people. essentially creating an entire family with no foundation of commitment or desire to form a union. it just will never make sense to me!
2025-08-18 16:30:45
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kasondra :
if you ever do have a wedding, having your babies apart of it will be so special 🥹🥹🥹
2025-08-12 19:37:11
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carlycarlicarlie :
“What if he died” never stops cause they say the same if you’re married and stay home 😒😂
2025-08-12 19:30:27
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Lindsay Gaga :
I had a baby and we were supposed to get engaged when I was pregnant but I didn’t want to for vanity reasons but my son is 21 months and by my choice we are still not engaged although his dad would love to be..haha
2025-08-12 19:24:17
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Casey Ouellette :
I also got engaged in 2019 and we’re still as happy as ever.. it’s just not a big deal to us right now but WOW does everyone else seem to care way too much about it
2025-08-18 12:31:35
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MAR :
The song! His videos are so funny!😂 // Omg, people can be so nosey with content creators! 😐
2025-08-13 13:06:59
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Lindsey 🐝 :
I’m sorry but “what if he died” is NOT a crazy statement. Coming from someone whose 26 year old boyfriend got cancer. He is okay now, thank God. But I wouldn’t have been able to make medical decisions or even had a place to live back then had anything happened to him. A will is great…but there’s even more to it than that. 🥲 Don’t think you’re exempt from tragedy!
2025-08-13 18:48:25
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Hanna Banana92 :
we waited 12 years and 4 kids later 😭 we finally did it this year and my Husband says he doesnt know why he waited so long 😭💀
2025-08-17 07:20:19
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aniya :
i work in a hospital and unfortunately have seen partners not be able to see or know information about their partners. (because they aren’t married) it’s really hard for me to do but even if they are deceased i can’t say anything
2025-08-15 13:03:39
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Jasmine :
“What if he died” um, he’d be dead. Next question 🤣
2025-08-13 23:19:49
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