@kyleinspires: Why you can't stop thinking about them (brain science explains it) #psychology #overthinking #relationships

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sparkplug430
Sparkplug430 :
blame my parents✍️got it
2025-08-14 17:40:21
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allstar870
Allstar7 :
limerence takes up to 18 months to let someone go 18!!!!!! ugh
2025-08-14 23:13:59
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omni.zillion
Omni Zillion :
You are awesome!
2025-10-12 21:01:03
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biehbly
Biehbly :
He's all 3. I'm doomed 😂
2025-08-15 22:06:27
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erikamacabre
Erika :
I hate my brain
2025-08-15 06:17:46
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ladybutterfly372
🥀LadyLydia🌸🌹🌱🌿🍂 :
Unfinished story
2025-08-14 03:32:54
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sv.tx
sv :
All three at once. Repeatedly. I feel very attacked.
2025-08-14 03:55:30
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allybd2
Ally :
It’s been 26 years and I still think about it.
2025-08-17 05:38:42
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odochia.gigant
odochiagigant :
The third one definitely
2025-08-21 14:06:53
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elisalivinglife
Elisa :
"rejection breeds obsession" heard Tony Robbins say
2025-08-14 14:09:22
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myboi9191
MyBoi :
it's been 2 years and I still wish she would come back
2025-08-15 18:07:01
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slysiderin
KDizzle1 :
Unfinished stories, I have too many. Whether I was ghosted, rejected without complete closure, or just failing to take action at a critical moment of opportunity. I think it's incredibly difficult for men to get closure when there aren't clear reasons. Women often can't explain why in a way that provides real closure, usually just more confusion for men. They can say anything or hit you with all the cliche breakup statements and it's only how they feel and not what they mean. You think you have closure and understanding, but then the woman quickly does the opposite of what they told you. "I'm not ready for a relationship." and they're in one next week,for example. It's like they can't just let you down with the real truth that might sting really bad but is better for closure and self-improvement. Soon time has passed and it's been too long to gain any more closure. You're left with an unfinished story that will remain that way forever. At least I like to think there are infinite timelines in the universe, and in one of them, things did work out. It's what my heart tells me..
2025-08-15 20:47:35
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brittersbop
B :
I think maybe you just saved my life?
2025-08-16 16:41:58
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omahdeej
أم حديج :
All🙃
2025-08-20 22:28:03
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supernovagirl90
🦋Michelle🦋 :
Ok so do I like reach out to him and ask for closure after 5 months since he broke up with me, after we were “leveling up” and he was about to call me his gf and I call him my bf and he was excited for our future and planning our next date, then a week later called me to say he “thought about this and I don’t feel the same as I did.” And then proceeded to talk to me like a friend for 3 hours, lots of laughs, I cried but held my composure because I was very confused, first ever breakup like that. And he was like “it’s not see you never!” And then after that 3 hour phone call, I cried till dawn. Then a couple days later he “checked in on me” and we kept in touch over text every few days as I tried to heal but was really sad, couldn’t go a day without crying. Of course I never told him that. I just kept it like “oh today was my niece’s running race” like that type of thing. And then after a month he stopped checking in and then I checked in on him once a week all of April and in late April he was flirting with me and promising to call to check in and play video games with me (because we both loved to play video games together when dating) and I was like ok when? And he kept saying he had a long day etc.. but then would make tiktoks and send them to me and I would send him mine. And he was like still flirting and saying how we are going to hangout and I took it as he wanted to rekindle and then he said “I thought you wanted to save your first kiss for someone serious” and I was like “I thought so too but maybe that can be you” and he was like sending gifs like confused then he was like “we tried that, but if we both decide to try again in the future, I try to stay open minded” and that Kaden e cry again late April. And I was like ok I’d like that, for now let’s focus on our bestie bond. And he agreed. Then in early May he told me he couldn’t call after all or play video games because he was busy busy and also “dating a little” then a week after that (we hadn’t gone a week without texting at that time) he said “I’m trying to be respectful to the person I’m dating currently and talking to you isn’t kosher. But we can check in here and there and have a phone call (con)
2025-08-17 19:58:08
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a.lavni
a.lavni :
no, out of boredom I can get myself to be obsessed over literally anyone
2025-08-16 14:06:41
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loveufor10000years
reid :
Pop psychology kills. What about people who remind you of your childhood best friend, your first crush, a positive parental figure … the negative spin used to engagement mine here is a real bummer. Life is more complicated people.
2025-08-17 22:57:52
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peepee3360
Peepee :
I think I have all 3 🥺
2025-09-22 02:26:29
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gittemama
Gitte Mortensen :
All of them 😮‍💨
2025-08-16 11:03:56
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itsallinmyeyes
keepitreal :
help. how do we stop obsession
2025-08-13 22:55:09
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darkellaine_art
Darkellaine :
is there even love out there then? i feel like every attachment i developed was a variation of these...
2025-08-20 15:24:23
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bogaolaa
bogaola :
unfinished story... but she's kind of confident too. But the feeling is not shared so..😔
2025-08-23 19:49:23
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tazziii
Tazziii :
Can’t wait to call someone a cancelled Netflix show 🤣🤣🤣
2025-08-22 22:26:59
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