@therealswitchesty: Here’s my two cents on topics you didn’t ask me about🫠😌 anyway… #findingmyvoiceagain #talking #absentparents #africanparenst #accountability

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keaaflorie
FLORIE 🦩️ :
they believe that because they are older they are always right
2025-08-21 20:57:32
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kukulemom
kudzie :
im letting the relationship with my dad die, to hell with it
2025-08-22 09:53:10
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segoo_233
g.segooo :
A child’s first enemy is an unhealed parent 🙂‍↕️
2025-08-22 13:46:50
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zobuhlem2002
HerWife🫧 :
Especially mothers!….them n accountability 🫲🫱
2025-08-22 11:31:19
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mmambombo
BabsKaSinono :
our parents would rather sell their souls to the devil than humble themselves and account for their actions.
2025-08-22 08:51:32
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ursulabrown13
Ursula_Brown :
Oh sweety, it could never be me, I almost tried and then I remembered, I AM THE CHILD and NOT THE PARENT, so I give the same energy 🤞🏽
2025-08-22 06:04:08
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lululemon12329
lululemon123 :
I think most parents forget that they CHOSE to be parents. Whether it was to satisfy their partner, save their marriage or take the next step in life. By choosing to become parents , you chose to make sacrifices to raise your child in order for them to grow into healthy adults. For most parents , keeping their child alive until adulthood is an accomplishment to them and they forget that parenthood is more than clothes on your back and a plate of food. They end up using the sacrifices they made as a tool to enable their lack of accountability. A way to justify why their so emotionally absent. The moment that child grows into an adult that can no longer be controlled, dictated or manipulated. They grow distant from their children rather than focusing on building a relationship 💯
2025-08-22 10:21:50
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zanelekokorwe
Zanele Kokorwe :
And they will lie to everyone who will listen to make you the villain.
2025-08-31 08:14:33
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therealswitchesty
TherealSwitchesty :
That time we didn’t ask to be here 😭
2025-08-22 10:40:14
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siphokazihlengwa
CookieCrumbless🍪 :
My Father is always gaslighting me instead of owning up to his mistakes and I’m done trying to. 🥺
2025-08-22 06:19:19
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katlehomakutso
Katleho Makutso :
Sana no child wants to go on with life without their parent if a child gets to a point where they have gone no contact with the parent just know IT’S THE PARENTS FAULT idc!!
2025-08-22 10:55:00
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itss_neiloe
Nelly :
my dad says it's not his responsibility to cheak on me but my stepmom's😞 I miss him but I'm also mad at him cause why doesn't he try
2025-08-22 11:31:16
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kgahli.soo
Ndabezitha :
I once told my mom that she needs to start taking accountability and she crashed out saying I’m ungrateful and she’ll misown me(I’m a teenager)✋
2025-08-22 11:23:48
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seba.mlaba
seba.mlaba | MUA :
I once told my mom it’s not only my job to be a good daughter, you also have to be a good mother. She was flabbergasted
2025-08-22 11:06:53
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sinaartjie
Yolz❤️‍🔥 :
Mine says he won’t provide bcs I only call him bcs I want provision. I don’t check up on him and his kids. 😂
2025-08-22 12:06:53
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rethabilethatane
rethathatane :
taking accountability is so uncomfortable for parents😭
2025-08-22 11:56:10
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ziandazama
zi’anda zama 🤍 :
My therapist told me to let go cause I’m the child and I’ve been good ever since
2025-08-22 15:16:49
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8weezy_
🎱WEEZY :
So…they’re avoiding shame? 🤨
2025-08-22 12:02:20
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khanya_sibbs
brightnesscomforter :
Unless they are a narcissist, they just don’t care , literally don’t carry a damn 😅
2025-08-21 19:40:34
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khanieyj
Khaniey_ :
Can I please save/download this video🥹
2025-08-22 08:40:56
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nab3919
NAB :
True
2025-08-26 11:26:02
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traceyjuma3
traceyjuma3 :
My dad once forced me to apologize to my step mother because she had blocked me and started complaining that I wasn’t calling her. She literally blocked me and there’s no way I could call her. Structuring that apology was so had, there were like 5 adults in the room and they all agreed that I had to apologize to her 😂😂
2025-08-25 06:33:38
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chawekazi_entle
Chawekazi_Entle :
I once posted myself passing by my bio dads city, this man asked me why didn’t I go and see him. That time the last time he came to see me was in 2007, and I still live in the same house he came to see me at in 2007. I told that I’d rather suck a pharas toes than go and pass by him
2025-08-22 12:50:09
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njabulokrystal
Njabulo Krystal :
Send this to my dad
2025-09-02 17:00:30
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