Professor Sol
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Devo14218 :
Me trying to just talk; People think I’m flirting. Me trying to flirt; people think I am an awkward weirdo.
2025-08-22 11:42:56
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frocksake :
I flirt like a bird 😂
2025-08-22 18:11:07
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Claudia Nieto :
OMG thank you! 🙏🏽 sending this to my bf💀😂
2025-09-01 22:40:54
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koffeewithkandee :
This is so accurate. Every guy thinks I’m flirting. And don’t even get me started on women who get upset at me for just TALKING to their partner. Literally not interested in their person at all. But here we are. Glad to have words to it. 🙏
2025-08-22 13:15:53
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ARarity[US] :
society is just gross atp. like i dont even want to engage.
2025-08-22 16:59:43
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Emderth :
Is this maybe why I’ve had a few guys I’ve dated be like “you’re so different to other girls”? Thanks it’s my disability.
2025-08-22 18:36:23
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Adam :
I’m 41 years old and to this day, I cannot give you a single instance where I know for a fact, someone was flirting with me. Not one. 🤣
2025-08-22 19:02:39
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✮𝕻𝖊𝖓𝖊𝖑𝖔𝖕𝖊✮ :
This is so true! Sometimes, as an autistic person, when I try to socialize people mistake it for flirting, this usually happens with men and when I notice it I hold myself back out of fear, but that makes me feel uncomfortable and inauthentic, and then I worry I might seem rude or stuck up. With women, I sometimes feel they don't like me or assume I have hidden intentions, or that I am really competitive maybe cause they're not used to another woman being so openly kind. On top of that, with adhd, if I meet someone I really like or find inspiring, I can hyperfocus on them, for example, supporting all their posts online. To me it's just genuine interest and admiration, but for men it can look like flirting, and for women it can look suspicious, so I'm scared of socialize cause I dont always realize this til it's too late
2025-09-04 15:11:19
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Cirrius513 :
This just brought me so much self awareness. Ive wondered if im subconsciously being manipulative. Im just being authentic. This just freed me. Thank you.
2025-10-04 13:52:12
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Atley :
I have the same and opposite issue where I can’t notice subtle cues when someone is actually flirting with me. If people aren’t direct with me then I get really uncomfortable and confused trying to understand what they actually want from me.
2025-08-22 15:52:57
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Kutenikk :
Ha happened to me at work. Was passionate about nutrition, chatting w our cleaning guy, while smiling a lot. He mistook it for flirting and asked me out. Things became awkward for a while after that. Sure made a lot of coworkers giggle when I told them.
2025-09-05 01:11:35
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Lester’s Cat House :
This is so true!!! I ask a lot of questions because I’m genuinely curious and I listen carefully because I have a hard time processing and that comes off as being more than just interested
2025-08-22 11:38:52
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Jamesesbread :
I did NOT know that. I’ve been told I can be very flirtatious with new people, but I never understood how it was coming across when it was just me meeting them, trying to get comfortable around them, make them feel welcome.
2025-08-22 11:43:06
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Spitfireprincess :
Omg I have been so often found out later people thought I was flirting because I was being nice. I have ended up on dates but not know it was date until after. One guy told me if we ever broke up he would kill himself. I still don't know when it how he though we were dating. But now I don't care I am just me if they misunderstand. That isn't my problem. It is there's: even nt don't say the things I am doing is flirting. Being nice asking question being engaged in a conversation. To many mind fields but not anymore I am just being me. They can have the confusion. There making it making bad assumptions
2025-09-15 20:27:51
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💜Traumoid💙 :
I was accused of "coming on" to my employees twice at work. it never occurred to me. I thought I was being both positive and reinforcing.
2025-08-22 14:48:34
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Meggo :
I'm TERRIBLY AWKWARD with romance (that's kinda hard to say), but I'm wondering if other autistics have had or have this experience? Please..
2025-08-22 11:33:26
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Ongekat9 :
Sorry autistic me can’t unfocus on the typo. ❤️
2025-08-22 19:52:30
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melodywritessongz :
It’s not mutually exclusive tho. I am ALSO flirting a lil.
2025-08-22 16:57:47
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Gabriella Andrea :
Maybe we autistic should connect and be friends. 😂 So if you need a friend I'm here for you 🙋♀
2025-09-25 06:59:25
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Sana :
Happened to me before the guy was already married and got angry he told me because I was too warm and sounded excited and happy am like what 🤣
2025-08-22 13:27:10
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surviving :
It’s true and I couldn’t flirt if I wanted to 🤣
2025-08-22 11:52:15
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misanthopeful :
This has caused many issues in my relationship when they perceive me flirting with others, when I feel that I am just having a conversation.
2025-08-22 15:53:44
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Gen :
oh I flirt too tho ngl
2025-08-22 19:47:04
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Cindy The Mortgage Specialist :
its eye contact. most people dont look others in the eye
2025-09-21 16:25:28
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🌈caseypromise :
Hi Sol, would you mind watching my last video? I’m struggling with oversharing and then losing friends because of it. I could really use some help with this. I have a therapist. I’ve had them for 25 years. But I can’t seem to get help with the intense desire to overshare due to anxiety or need to connect, etc. I’m now isolating more and more because I’m afraid to lose anyone else.
2025-08-22 17:07:38
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