@monicamooresmith5: I’m so confused, I felt horrible on our drive to the event because you gave me the silent treatment and talked down to me for hours, but suddenly it’s like we’re in the honeymoon phase again? Are things okay now? Are you faking it? I don’t know what’s happening. #darvo #whatisabuse #abusetactics #narcissisticabuse #avoidantattachmentstyle
Then they get mad when you’re distant or not interacting at said event so you get berated on the way home too ☺️
2025-08-25 20:56:53
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Monica Moore Smith :
Abusive relationships will have you on edge constantly unsure of where you are at with them. Do they hate me? Do they love me? Here is the thing, a healthy relationship doesn’t have this uncertainty. It’s clear. It’s not convoluted, and it’s not this up-and-down. It’s pretty consistent.
2025-08-25 03:27:47
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Danie :
Every holiday on the way to his family’s house
2025-10-04 01:54:52
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Robyn 🦋 :
Omg .. were you in my house 😭
2025-08-25 04:56:15
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flushedflash :
Being in a marriage where divorce is threatened 5 times a week at the blink of an eye makes the marriage not even feel real. Don’t miss it.
2025-09-05 19:54:33
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Holly B :
I do not miss this life.
2025-08-25 12:01:35
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Lena :
Girl your videos are spot on what I go through 😭
2025-08-25 03:30:58
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Hill :
And when you’re the type of person who literally cannot pretend everything is okay you start skipping all the things 🫠
2025-08-25 15:41:38
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Heather Coleman-Voss :
Spot on!
2025-08-25 14:54:15
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user9149950376282 :
Wow what did you do to make him say those things 😳
2025-08-25 12:21:47
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Arichan :
I felt this so hard
2025-08-25 17:38:58
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ellestar235 :
Or before a wedding, or seeing their family….
2025-08-26 00:54:51
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Lola666jen :
The kicker is when they threaten to divorce you but they don’t know how, so you know you’re gonna have to do that too. Exhausting.
2025-09-07 04:42:51
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lilycoastal :
Me every day of my life. It’s draining
2025-09-13 23:32:04
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user9019704062348 :
Not my ex doing exactly this then telling my family he’s worried about me because I am quiet at social events
2025-09-01 06:55:46
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Shannon Jones :
Girl yes the content we need!! Like some ppl don’t know what an abusive relationship is like thank u for doing the Lords work!! 🥹
2025-08-25 03:46:31
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jendgaf :
The second they walk in the door
2025-09-05 06:01:25
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Meli_V :
I lived this for 15 years and do not miss it!
2025-08-25 23:48:44
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courtneytspain :
Oh my fucking god this is exactly what happened
2025-09-25 20:12:47
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Juicy :
But can we talk about parents that do this?
2025-09-27 19:29:18
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lil_mama_steph :
“Let’s get you a drink and get you over your mood” - My Ex
2025-08-26 23:04:51
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Kelly Fator :
This!!!!!
2025-08-25 19:49:29
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Krystalin Carlson :
We’re hanging out with friends tomorrow and I’m betting he’s going to start cuddling me and wanting affection around our friends. Like no. I’m not going to pretend anymore
2025-09-27 02:53:39
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brooklynnuniverse :
I hate that I get this
2025-09-04 23:37:31
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pinknoseprincipesa :
May this love never find me. ever again. 💯
2025-09-10 18:30:02
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