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jasmine ⋆⭒˚.⋆ :
A friend of mine who grew up here and lived in the US for a long time too, told me Italy is 10 years behind the US in a lot of ways including girls girl culture 🥺
2025-08-26 12:43:09
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Bleuskiez19 :
My bf is from northern Italy & when I go there the first thing I notice is all the girls wear exactly the same outfits!!
2025-09-17 02:35:02
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Global Courtney :
It’s awful here in Germany too
2025-08-26 11:39:21
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yourstellartruth :
Southern Italy isn’t like this as much, but they’re still judgy in some ways.
2025-10-01 05:58:25
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Tik & Tok :
Tuscany…where I lived for 12 years…is probably worse than the north.
2025-10-08 16:50:11
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ragebat3r101 :
Vicenza
2025-09-13 21:09:49
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Mia :
I always hear the girls in Italy are so harsh😭 I was just there and I dressed to my style. The looks I were getting really hurt my feelings lol
2025-09-12 15:32:25
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April Kelly18 :
They are jealous. Be you girl. Know your value.
2025-08-25 21:44:28
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༄𝓜𝓮𝓻𝓬𝓾⚚𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓲𝓪࿐ :
my dad is italian (from the north) and ive been curious about living there and he straight up told me that I wouldnt like it. im realizing what he meant by that. I still would like to visit.
2025-09-10 06:45:59
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. :
as an Italian I've experienced this my whole life 😭 I've always been considered "weird" for basically not being a mean girl
2025-10-08 17:55:59
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Travellex :
I feel that is the same concept in the states. If you went to a small town and dressed Miami. The same thing would happen.
2025-10-03 13:25:29
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🥚 :
I can relate, this happens in with some small town people everywhere though. I grew up on Long Island and lived in NYC. I always did my own thing in terms of thought, interest, music, and wear my hair naturally curly, but dressed the same and I am socially apt. I.e., pretty much fit the “mold”. In NY, I never got bullied. Then, I studied abroad with people who weren’t from NY but subarbs of other states and got bullied by cliquey girls for not being exactly like them. I was shocked, and couldn’t figure out why they didn’t like me. Recently, I worked out of state (with more people from high-end subarbs of other states) and kinda had the same experience. So weird. I don’t have a hard time making friends in NY, and me and my friends aren’t nonconformists or anything like that. There’s just something that these out of state small town people don’t like. I can’t even pin down what it is that makes them think I’m different. But either way it comes from their fear of discomfort, they don’t want to push themselves to introduce anything new into their lives. Their “mold” is much smaller.
2025-11-01 10:43:18
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latinaforeva2002 :
I remeber the first time I went out with some girls from Buenos Aires Argentina (influenced by Italian culture fs), I wore a latina baddie outfit, small bandana crop top, and lots of makeup+ winged eyeliner. They were ALL dressed up exactly how you described and I felt so ridiculous! They even made a comment about them “not needing makeup” in front of me lol.
2025-10-02 20:03:40
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Candy017 :
Be like everyone else? No thanks, exclude me idc
2025-09-29 04:49:04
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gal.eria 🍉 :
Unfortunaly this is true. Born and raised in northern Italy, and I always had problems with feeling part of the "group" here. If you are a little different you will never be fully acepted. The worst thing is that they have no shame.
2025-10-08 11:03:55
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mailamanzur_ :
Where do you live? I live in Bassano del grappa and when i go out in the evening I do see a lot girls dressing the same but I thought it was a teenager thing more than italian, i used to live in Germany and the girls there also have some dress code apart from berlin ofc then you see everything which is cool 👍🏻
2025-10-09 05:45:23
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sceneghostie :
had a similar experience in denmark, got invited to a birthday party shortly after moving there and didn’t catch up on the whole ”let’s all wear white” dresscode… ended up standing there dressed completely in black 😅 let’s just say the girlies did not invite me again 🫠
2025-10-09 06:49:47
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laurakeiraa :
Summer it’s all white and winter it’s all black dress code, I’m Irish and my husband is from Napoli and it’s the first thing I noticed!
2025-10-08 17:12:10
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Kobe_Amos :
Top evento mai accaduto 😂
2025-09-26 13:01:29
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sonofwolfgal :
Grado? I loved it but even as an adult I could see how the young girls were typical mean girls with their stares. I stared back until I made them u uncomfortable 😂.
2025-08-29 04:06:08
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jasmine ⋆⭒˚.⋆ :
I’ve experienced this a bit in Rome too, at least compared to girls girl culture in Seattle this was tough for me 😭
2025-08-26 12:42:28
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Matilde :
Everyone is judgemental
2025-10-08 13:20:26
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Sweetiepie :
So...why not acknowledge that you missed the vibe and ask for their help in what to wear. Explain it's different all over the world. Sometimes being vulnerable helps the other girls feel less intimidated. You are very pretty and if you dressed flashy their reaction was just that...intimidated.
2025-08-26 14:43:18
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💅 :
I grew up in a small small town in northen italy and i understand too much this video😭😭😭😭
2025-10-26 20:48:38
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