Jim Ramos | Men in the Arena
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jrod1329 :
The problem with second, third marriages and so on is that they are adultery. They are not of God. Unless someone is widowed. They should’ve never happened. Marriage is a covenant between God, one man and one woman. Till the end. God doesn’t break his covenants. A second marriage may seem blissful 1. Because your in sin, so the devil is not going to come at you like he did with your first marriage because your already in sin where he wants you. 2. Because you are more willing to make it work because you don’t want to fail again; and you don’t want to look like the problem to your surroundings instead of putting in work and sacrifices for your first marriage. 3. You believe the lie that it’ll be easier to start over with someone else. The word says we are allowed to separate but not divorce. I believe separation is a tool that with time should we surrender ourselves to God like he calls us to he will mend our marriages and restore it. But, if we entertain other people or other things we’re not giving God the space, room to do what the marriage needs. We become to distracted with carnal things instead of sacrificing the flesh and feeding the spirit.
2025-08-27 22:03:44
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Floki :
I remarried and had 4 kids with my ex. I put my new wife first, it was tough. but i married and amazing women. Now I have 3 kids with my new wife and still have one at home from my first marriage. Always put your spouse first and everything will work out because God will bless your marriage and has blessed mine beyond measure. I had lots of insecurities from my first marriage and did not even realize it, but my new wife stood by me and open communication is the key.
2025-08-27 23:25:36
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Amy Lee :
Second marriage and we agree God is first our marriage is second and our kids are third
2025-10-09 00:22:45
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inspiredspirit80 :
I won’t be dating until my children are grown and living their own lives. It’s just not fair to everyone involved.
2025-08-27 22:23:15
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🍯 🐝 𝔏𝔢𝔦𝔤𝔥 :
My ex condemned remarriage after divorce. He Cheated, he filed for divorce and remarried to his affair partner. And constantly says their marriage is biblical but ours was not. We have kids together. He married her even after she cheated on him and got pregnant by someone else.
2025-08-27 18:58:51
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julielauper :
My ex forgot he was a father. ignores his daughter and chose his new wife over her.
2025-08-27 17:03:20
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Criselda Gonzalez :
Actually if it is a marriage through a courthouse and a judge,that is not recognized by god!That is through the law of the land!Not the law of god in the church!!
2025-08-28 04:17:33
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Jordo Music :
Alot of judgment around here. People should worry about themselves :) last thing we want to do is make people feel even worse than they might already.
2025-08-27 17:53:51
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AgentSolarcap :
In the KJV 1611 God does not say He hates divorce. He says He hates the man who treats the wife God gave him treacherously and sets her aside in divorce, it’s the same as covering oneself with a garment of violence. God made divorce and He only follows His laws, as when He said He divorced Israel in Jeremiah. God does not hate His laws, He hates covenant breakers and abusers.
2025-08-27 16:17:20
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Leanor :
Putting your spouse first doesn’t mean neglecting your children. Some ppl need to hear that. And understand that if you start a marriage off telling that partner they will always come last…don’t expect that marriage to last.
2025-08-27 20:23:26
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✨Katie💖 :
God hates abuse more than he hates divorce. Your kids are a gift.
2025-08-30 01:30:58
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Kaytopa :
This absolutely can’t happen. 13 years in a blended family and my husband always put me above his kids and together, we made them our priority below our marriage and relationship with Christ. We aren’t perfect- but I think we figured it out and it worked!
2025-09-08 16:28:33
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Kristin Victoria Overton :
The phrase "God hates divorce" from Malachi 2:16 is a result of mistranslation in older versions of the Bible, like the King James Version (KJV), which wrongly changed the original Hebrew third-person "he hates" to the first-person "I hate". In the Hebrew, God isn't condemning divorce itself but rather the treacherous and unjust actions of a husband who hates and divorces his wife, thus breaking covenant. Modern translations, supported by the Dead Sea Scrolls and the Septuagint, now more accurately reflect the original text by focusing on the husband's violence and injustice rather than a direct statement of God's hatred for divorce.
2025-09-29 12:15:26
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Rachel Champion :
I'm the second wife, both came into the marriage with children and have a child together. We both made it clear our marriage comes before our children. And our children benefit more because of it.
2025-08-28 14:05:33
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Dave Hatt :
“He’s already failed loving the first one”? Is this meant to be a true blanket statement across all divorced men?
2025-10-11 22:13:51
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Nicole D. :
I don’t know I know several failed and unhappy first marriages and more happy and successful second marriages….
2025-08-28 13:19:55
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Elmoglasgow1 :
I’m the second wife. My husband has NEVER said that. I am #1 always and in all ways !
2025-08-29 18:39:23
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BrandyWine :
I'm wife #4 with my husband and that's exactly what I've been told. his 3 boys come before me. last I checked, I'm the wife so I still should come before his children just as he comes before mine. he is marriage #2 for me. tell me what's wrong with this picture and why we now live apart
2025-08-28 02:49:56
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Sílvi54 :
I believe that if there are two people, mature people; there will be an understanding that the kids will come first. Now the woman has to understand that the kids are a priority to her husband and the other way round
2025-08-27 16:28:53
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anon :
Ha! What divorced man puts his kids first when a new woman comes along? I’ve never seen it in my 50 years on earth
2025-09-11 17:23:02
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dimmergee :
let children grow up before you remarry
2025-08-29 21:17:10
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Pluviomama7 :
You need to do a deeper study on Malachi 2:16. The ORIGINAL sea scrolls that were found in the 1990s so NOT say that. It was the King James translators that changed it from an anti abuse verse to an anri divorce verse. Do the research.
2025-08-27 16:26:02
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meokie2552 :
Chapter 2 in Malachi is more about God protecting women and children than marriage.
2025-08-28 12:03:42
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Susan de Beer :
the problem is that we don't follow God's order for marriage. God first Husband second Wife third and then the children. So your partner is more important than the children and that's where people make the mistake!!!
2025-09-01 15:37:22
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braai_republic :
assuming there was kids in the first marriage
2025-09-18 19:51:50
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