If they got married right after high school, and she started college/career with his last name then all her friends and colleagues know her by that name. Would be confusing to go back to old name
2025-08-28 19:16:52
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Anonymous Ashley :
This is something you get therapy for to work through yourself. Dig into why it bothers you so much.
2025-08-28 17:30:21
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jjsr2009 :
I woukd do this if I had a horrible maiden name.
2025-08-28 15:38:40
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Kazzzandruh :
When I left my ex husband I kept the last name until I remarried because changing your name is SUCH a hassle and I’ve got other things going on in my life that take priority than running around to the social security office and dmv.
2025-08-28 16:29:35
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Anna ✨ :
It bothers her because she is insecure and wants full ownership . Maybe she likes the last name but maybe she doesn’t want to change for document reasons . Like if I got divorced I would 💯 keep my husbands last name because his last name is my name and it’s my identity now . Tell the girl to live her life and not be bothered
2025-08-28 15:33:19
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Alaynah :
My moms mom divorced my grandpa, gave up the kids. Kept the last name AND THEN gave it to her other kids from other relationships. So. Weird.
2025-08-28 15:36:25
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Mariliza Pauwels :
Uhm… yeah..,if thats the worst thing… you got it good.
2025-08-28 16:19:04
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Charalar :
my married last name is on all of my degrees and I'm not changing now
2025-08-28 23:36:41
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Adrisauruss🍓 :
I still have my exes last name it’s by far better than my maiden 🤣name
2025-08-28 18:38:49
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Hayley Bartsch :
Let me say that if my husband and I ever separate (god forbid), I am keeping this last name. We don’t have kids, but the hassle of changing it back would be so annoying to me. ALL BANKS AND LEGAL DOCS? No fucking way, & it’s the name on my college degrees? I will be known by this name for the rest of my life.
2025-08-29 16:00:53
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Stefani :
as someone who fits this scenario and the new gf was livid, it takes way too much effort to change it. if he cheated on me or something I would have changed it out of hatred but the split was pretty civil, no hard feelings, I kept it for 5 years until my current marriage.
2025-09-22 08:00:23
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chopepo77 :
I live in a country where you don't take your husband's last name so the thought of having someone else's name and he's not even in my life anymore is crazy
2025-08-28 17:58:19
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Chelsea Ann :
It is suuuuuch a mess changing your name on everything. Getting new cards for your bank, changing name on lease or mortgage, all bills, changing work email addresses, literally everything with your name on it has to change. Why bother, until you have to. Too much work.
2025-08-28 16:28:03
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mo :
I can see why it bothers her but the ex 100% hasn’t changed it bc she’s too lazy to change it back and then potentially change it again if she remarries.
2025-08-28 20:26:18
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Gingerbread Baby :
I kept my ex-husband's last name because I did more with it in the 5 years I had it than he did with it his whole life. Girlfriend will be fine.
2025-08-29 11:22:56
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𝓝𝓲𝓬𝓸𝓵𝓮❤︎ :
I divorced and wanted my maiden name back. Yes, it's a hassle to change it but the last thing I'd want is for that man to think I still wanna be attached to him.
2025-08-28 20:17:48
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Macey Gustamante :
My mom did the same thing, she kept my dad’s last name after divorce. Got remarried 20 years later, got divorced AGAIN and voluntarily went back to my dads last name 😅😂
2025-08-28 16:02:48
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kristenmazeiko :
She cheated on him, not the other way around. She definitelyyy doesn’t care to keep his last name bc she was the one in the wrong. Guarantee if HE cheated she’d be changing it
2025-08-28 16:43:57
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JennyL :
It’s easier to keep the married name rather than go through all the paperwork. Plus if they get established in a certain profession, their married last name is on everything. It’s just easier to keep it.
2025-09-02 06:41:37
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Alex :
Honestly, I went through all that work to change it in the first place. And if she’s thinking she’ll get married again why change it back to change it again in the new marriage?
2025-08-30 22:21:12
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Angel :
I've had his last name longer than my maiden name it's mine now 😂
2025-08-29 13:13:11
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Gears and Gadgets :
Oh Stacy Diesel not wanting to go back to Stacy Cummings 100%
2025-08-28 21:35:23
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Ms D :
Changing your name back is soooooooooo hard! Way harder than getting married.
2025-08-28 17:19:55
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Jakilla 🇨🇦 :
Just ask Jack White
2025-08-29 08:11:24
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Ashley 🖤 📚 :
Doesn’t it cost money to change the name back? Maybe that’s why
2025-08-28 23:26:44
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