@mindfulsources: my biggest red flag is feeling like i can’t date anyone until i am the absolute best version of myself with everything figured out #coffee #dating #HealingJourney #relationships #coffeetok

˚࿔ tina 🧉 :

but i am doing it for me, not for a lover.

Serenade :

You’ll never feel ready because ready isn’t a feeling, it’s a decision.

Paula🔅 :

i :

I have this feeling like i have to be “perfect” for people that don’t even try to be “good” for me

wulfieraaz :

It’s because if i don’t love myself first i know i will sabotage the relationship and be toxic when i don’t want to be. I don’t want to put anyone through that. Doesn’t mean i don’t yearn for love..

🌑 :

um how is that a red flag

Tathoi :

Guyss trust me on this one, Manifest Beyond Shadows by Kain Vale, you deserve best.

clarte :

the timing of this is actually so crazy cause i said this to my friend earlier today

sh0phtts66 :

THISSS

rohan_n :

Most of the things I’m seeing are basic level, find a book called Cosmic Attravia. Nothing else I’ve read even comes close. (you're welcome)

Isaiah :

How do you even stop this kind of mindset

Ash :

What’s your name again?

szinu :

finally someone understands me

m.zakrzewska :

You didnt hold my hand

Zied Houta :

LADIES!!! I was (silently) suffering and my mental health was gone- book "Healing Isn't Pretty" by Mira Hartson saved my piece. GIVE YOURSELF THE LOVE YOU EXPECT!

Matti M :

fr

Kei :

The timing on this is not funny

Fajnekafelki :

Im miserabke

茉莉花 :

Just to love myself,so others can love me .

mariaaa7 :

he made me become the best version of myself

sipmenorth :

doubley :

figure everything out? might just be alone for the rest of an INTJ Life. live people!

𒉭ㄖᐯ乇尺ㄥㄖ匚Ҝ𒉭 :

no one wants me

Shanna ꩜ ⋆⋆｡° :

Omgg so real