@jenna_bariatricbestie: if anyone’s ever told you this would be easy, they’ve never walked in your shoes. completely changing every aspect of my life is the hardest thing i’ve ever done. truthfully, i still struggle every single day. i’m so beyond grateful to have had jake by my side through the darkest hours and the heaviest days, but i also want to say this: having support helps, but it isn’t the deciding factor in whether you succeed. YOU are capable. YOU are strong enough. no one can do this for you. you don’t need a “jake” to prove that to yourself. if no one else has told you lately—you’ve got this. small changes lead to big results! 🤍✨ #marriage #beforeandafter