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Noor Doll 🌸 :
Since when is getting to know someone dating? lol. I’m not marrying a stranger and if a guy is too impatient to get to know me then he’s not someone worth being with.
2025-08-29 12:36:47
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Jehanzebz :
This! Courtship is essential, and it should involve family (even friends), and women should have private meetings with suitors in public spaces with the awareness of family. And yes, 5-6 months is reasonable. You want to have a courtship duration where boredom and conflict could set in to test character and commitment.
2025-08-29 11:14:25
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Sokaina.T :
I feel like the word “dating” has been abused so bad that it feels illegal to date. Cause everyone knows what couples do when dating. Kissing going out, not caring, doing wild things etc. In my opinion if you keep it halal while dating then i dont see a problem. Going out having dinner, talking getting to know each other, talking on the phone etc… if you have respect for yourself with some boundaries then dating is essential and fun as well:)
2025-08-31 12:31:52
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arooj :
thank youuu sister bc im not marrying a stranger 😭✌️
2025-08-30 18:57:58
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~L✨ :
Thank you so much cause I’ve been battling with this whole topic because I fell for the “dating is haram” and married a terrible guy. But the dating makes so much more sense! Even my dad said he’d be happy for me to meet them and get to know them without him there because we all know he will be on his best behaviour if my dad was chaperone
2025-08-29 13:45:38
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🍉 :
date, but always have a mahram with you so it’s halal. it’s absolutely essential to get to know someone before committing your life with them.
2025-08-31 08:37:25
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Soma :
modern dating is haram. but dating to know the person, following the religion and wanting to marry soon is completely halal ❤️❤️❤️
2025-08-31 17:48:26
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Nicole | Online Income 💸✨ :
I spoke to my husband 10 months before meeting in person then met him for a year while I figured him and his family out before marrying him
2025-08-29 10:19:23
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blkboards :
arranged marriage/rushed marriage leads to overlooking a person, especially people with lifelong or chronic illness. they’re either told to hide the fact that they have this condition until their spouse is “locked in” or are told their standards of marriage should be lower or that they’ll never marry at all. this is not to say ableism doesn’t happen in courtship/dating, it’s 100% present. but at least in that model, you have some sort of chance to find someone that will accept you instead of automatically being overlooked and put down
2025-08-29 19:45:07
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t54y5t :
Unpopular opinion: the people who constantly rant about “haram” relationships and claim they all end in misery are just jealous. They hate seeing people who don’t play by their strict rules still finding love and getting married. As if getting married ASAP will somehow guarantee happiness instead of dating and getting to know each other. As long as you keep boundaries while dating, where’s the problem?
2025-08-30 10:16:18
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rosemary (like the spice)🇵🇸 :
I got married to my husband super fast but I had a binder with a TON of questions, like 300+ questions and I went thru nearly all of them before we moved forward with marriage. But also I’m 32 and have experience dating and sussing out terrible men so I felt confident in my decision to marry. Definitely made the right call :) but yeah fast marriage isn’t always the right way to go imo
2025-09-03 15:38:00
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nur | 🇮🇩/🇬🇧 :
in my culture sometimes we use the English word "boyfriend/girlfriend" to describe the person we're courting (halal ofc), and family, friends, parents use this term. but ofc, it's not the same thing as how western, non-muslim people would experience being a 'boyfriend/girlfriend'. there's a lot of nuance around the concept or meaning of 'dating' ngl
2025-08-31 10:30:41
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Walkaholic22 :
Getting to know someone can be done without dating. Try halal dating is still ok
2025-08-29 12:42:46
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🍋 :
I’m a little stuck on you being in the military sis, lol what.
2025-08-31 05:08:13
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✨Kate✨ :
THIS!!! In addition, never let a man pressure you into asking for a small dowry- it’s for your own security and to prevent financial abuse
2025-08-31 01:15:29
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_ftzd_ :
I was really big on the concept of ta’aruf, but now that I think about it, as you said, the reality is that no one shows their true colors in the presence of family members, even though it is for our safety.
2025-09-22 21:12:05
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Sherean123✌🏻🇵🇸✊🏻🔻 :
This is absolute factssss and this is what every young girl should know!
2025-08-29 18:49:39
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Purplyhoney :
me personally as Well because in south asian communuties (thought I don't care for my futur husband to be south asian as long as he is Muslim) the relationship with the inlaw is super important too so I can't get to know the man and his family in just few weeks I would at least need a few months but rather have One year at least just to plan stress free the wedding and get to really know him and develop feelings
2025-09-23 04:53:41
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AYE :
Yeah thats why I refer to it as courtship & psychologically people can only realistically keep a perfect facade for about a period of 3 months so rushing into engagement and marriage in leas than 6-12 months is extremely naive
2025-09-07 18:31:08
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Aicha Diary 😋 :
Thanks for this I feel like their is a vilification of the word dating like what’s wrong with getting to know someone before marriage in a halal manner like they be saying just get married right away
2025-09-07 03:49:43
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najmollah🇧🇩 :
Get to know and the term date aint the same
2025-09-06 13:56:09
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Mummykins12x :
As a mum of a teenager, I cant say this enough!!! I am now divorced, was married for 10 years, knew him 2 years prior to the marriage and clearly you still dont know them well enough. thank you!
2025-08-30 16:52:24
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