@razkeyuh: i think the reason women make these arguments is because they’re afraid of being financially responsible and working — truly. the 9-5 system is brutal, and with increased freedoms women were expected to navigate this independently with no additional accomodations. the solution is not to revert back to traditionalized dynamics. and again, there’s (currently) no pure logical argument you could posit for this, it’s purely based on preferences. premises will always be contested and debated. stop saying it’s logic, it’s just a preference and that’s okay.
like if u think ur relationship is unfair why are u in the relationship to begin with
2025-09-02 04:14:23
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rose :
i don’t get why the ‘who should pay’ thing is always a gendered debate when it should be a financial debate.
2025-09-02 15:46:56
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parceque345 :
But if they don’t shoulder the burden then they must pay
2025-09-03 17:57:03
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Lini :
So articulate and intelligent as always
2025-09-01 23:14:26
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mtk :
And Freedom doesn’t inherently make life harder it’s the lack of support that does. Suggesting that women must “suffer” for independence ignores systemic inequality. Preferences, like who pays for a date,are subjective and debatable BUT not universal logic.Claiming otherwise misrepresents both reasoning and reality.
2025-09-10 09:22:52
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izobel118_ :
Also- a traditional man only benefits a woman really in terms or equality or being equitable in EARLY stages of dating like paying and whatver . However in marriage and children if u marry a traditional man won’t that be even more of emotional/physical burden on the woman?😭
2025-09-02 11:41:39
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Saint ☁️ :
i think 50/50 or 100/0 is not fair it should be for financial like 70/30 or 60/40 and for housework 50/50 or like 60/40
2025-09-02 06:33:53
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sajeswa :
I’ll force him to do everything 50/50 including emotional labor and housework and planning. If that doesn’t work. Then no way I’ll do 50/50 in money
2025-09-05 07:41:42
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schizosoul :
i really hate when people say that this line of thinking makes you a "pick me" too like no i just think the struggles women face can't be fixed with money 💔
2025-09-01 22:14:54
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all jams am MMA :
I love everything you say, I feel the same and I find it hard to communicate those ideas into words like you ALLHUMA barik
2025-09-01 21:04:08
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نور :
So logically well said
2025-09-04 01:55:16
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Hammad 🏴 :
This harsh capitalist economy is not kind on anyone.
2025-09-05 21:53:51
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Ebek :
50/50 relationship both financial stuff and home chores.
2025-09-03 15:32:13
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Sara :
if it's 50/50 it's 50/50 in EVERYTHING
2025-09-02 12:20:53
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Ojyyd :
what if the couple don't want to have kids should the man also pay for everything
2025-09-04 13:08:04
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Kelsey Gordon Powell :
The solution is to build better relationships. Build a better world.
2025-09-02 13:45:28
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Thought daughter Lulu 🍇 :
Okay I get it now
2025-09-02 10:21:35
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L :
SISSSSSSSS FACTSSSSSSSS . Imagine thinking bro should drain his account while you’re dating and you guys are not locked in at all . Insane
2025-09-01 21:38:25
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𐙚Kikw🐰 :
i think its a preference and they can go 50 50, 60 40, 100 0, or anything as long as both of them are happy .and people are making things a way bigger deal then it is
2025-09-03 11:50:49
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Yaseen Boudjellele :
You’re so pretty and smart mashallah
2025-09-05 17:36:19
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Hi :
Thank youuu. I felt crazy looking at those comments
2025-09-02 19:25:13
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sofia :
Please get a podcast 😭
2025-09-02 03:50:02
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Lolilol4 :
I don’t even agree with the pregnant thing. Like arranging financially your wife during her time being pregnant because she will loose money good, but providing forever nah
2025-09-02 18:11:23
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Lini :
Thaaaaank you
2025-09-01 23:12:55
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squidged :
we need systemic solutions to systemic issues!
2025-09-03 01:47:49
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