Well, here's the thing. We get out and we aren't safer! The court system is a joke and especially if you have children with them. The court protect an abuser parental rights and still make you coparent with them. On the point of view of a woman staying in abusive situations. The women's brains are damaged biochemically, and it is equivalent to be addicted to heroine. And if god forbid that woman sustain actual blows to the head, then there actual physical damage that makes it difficult to make simple daily decision much less the ability to create a complex plan to escape alive. In the midst of addiction there is no clarity and its nothing but fog.
2025-09-03 11:04:28
9
Stacey2 :
I genuinely appreciate and respect what you are saying. Believe me, we want out. Just know, It's not that easy to get out. The justice system tries but usually makes it worse. I took beatings for three months before I could get out. He told me nose to nose "think hard and remember if you leave, your mom lives alone. It will be your fault, your choice." He walked away laughing. It is always worse than what people see. I thank God everyday that I got out.
2025-09-03 13:41:46
2
BMC :
He only put his hands on me once. I filed for divorce the next day. No sir. Not today.
2025-09-03 15:25:21
2
Summer Farmer :
The mental abuse came first, slowly knocking confidence down. Then it became a trauma bond. The highs were really high and the lows were really low with no in between. Studies show it takes women 7 times to actually get away. I don't remember it if was 7 for me but it was a lot. It was finally when he let me go that I got away but that was cause he had a new supply by then. He was always the victim.
2025-09-03 18:19:11
2
Jelisa Garcia :
Let me ask my mom! 😬 Personally.. I could never, will never, shall never!
2025-09-03 11:53:12
1
Istayquietforthemostpart :
The risk of death after leaving an abusive relationship is upwards of 70%. Why don’t you make a video asking men why they abuse the women they’re in a relationship with instead of putting that at the end of this one. The core issue is abusive men, not the abused women.
2025-09-03 16:11:55
0
TAYLOR JADE :
10/10 recommend listening to some episodes from @bitchisabadword !!!
2025-09-07 14:25:40
0
Sandy :
There are so many variables that play into why women stay. I was so judgmental towards women who stayed in those situations to the point that Inwould say they were weak, stupid, and they deserved what they got if they stayed…until I became that woman. God humbled me real quick. I’ve been out of that situation for over a year and I’m still worried about the repercussions of leaving.
2025-09-03 12:14:00
4
Sue 💙🤍 Carrillo :
I would counter this with why do men not leave the house so that we can stay with our kids. My abusive ex husband would not leave. The cops were no help. I was alone. I could not have my kids sleeping in the street. Thank God I got out safe years ago! My current live in bf won't leave my house (his not physically abusive) but I don't want to be with him after somethings I found out about him. Why won't they leave? I bet if another man call them out they would do it. Men don't like women.
2025-09-05 03:59:50
0
It's Karma :
Honestly, if you have to ask you will never understand.
2025-09-03 11:14:21
9
To see more videos from user @anthonytayeofficial, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.