@briknighttt: IMO you should be raising children to eventually leave you and have their own lives, not to continue their childhood into adulthood and still do whatever their parents expect of them. NO. Oh and if you think the word “boundary” is just a silly “therapy word” then you have so many problems I genuinely don’t know where to start. #postpartum #fourthtrimester #utahdoula #postpartumboundaries #inlaws
9 times out of 10, the DIL only wants space from the MIL because she’s not caring or respectful, if you were a better person she’d probably want you around more 😂😂
2025-09-06 09:52:48
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daisy ruth :
and the thing is, they MIGHT want you there because you will be a caring, compassionate, understanding MIL😂 why is it so hard for people to understand that
2025-09-05 20:37:13
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🌵ShayPopp🌻 :
Can I send this to someone? 😂
2025-11-12 14:42:53
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Daisy :
You are an icon
2025-12-01 02:32:25
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Mrs.Terry :
It’s called ✨respecting boundaries✨ and not all in-laws understand or care
2025-09-06 05:22:28
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Ashy :
I totally agree with you that six weeks of space should be respected as long as the mother of wife has the same boundaries. I find it baffling that the husband’s family always has stricter boundaries than the wife’s family. It makes no sense.
2025-11-02 18:50:47
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Ashley Nikole :
Be fr 6 weeks is excessive. I know I'm not going to be in the delivery room but damn.
2025-09-05 21:31:52
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Tatyana B :
THIS IS HOW TO BE A BOY MOM!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
2025-09-08 19:58:15
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Sleepless in Juland :
If my daughter in law does not want to see me for 6 weeks, I will offer to cover the cost of a doula once or twice a week during night so they can have at least 1-2 nights a week where they get a full rest. I will offer to pay for maid service so she won’t have to worry about cleaning the house. I will offer meal service so she can order what she wants and doesn’t feel obligated to eat what I chose to cook & wont even have to open the door to me during drop off. I will do all that bc that is how experienced mamas support new mamas…
2025-09-05 21:04:38
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B :
👑 here girl you dropped this
2025-09-14 21:51:28
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tallulah | life in my 20s 🥨 :
“What if your son doesn’t wanna see you for weeks??” like are we forgetting they will be grown adults by this point??? Not babies????
2025-09-06 09:41:53
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Steph :
the thing is this mindset is what lets you see the grandchild before the other side of the family who forces themselves in lol. Like basic respect is what gets you on peoples good sides lol
2025-10-20 16:39:15
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Efje Schmidt :
As the MIL I will be more then understanding that she might want her OWN MOTHER for a few weeks and not me!
2025-09-06 20:20:20
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📖♈MotherofErp🍄🍸 :
if my kids doesn't want to see me that long then I messed up
2025-09-07 06:40:03
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Yourmama :
I ♥️being a MIL. I let her decide everything. Girl I am tired, take charge. 👏👏👏👏 I do whatever they ask. She doesn’t have a mom so it’s a little different.
2025-09-05 20:49:03
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Carolyn Dimario :
My dad once told me when I got married “don’t let me your original family to come between the family you make”
2025-09-06 12:06:40
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emilycooneyfamily :
You have hit the nail on the head with this one! 👏
2025-09-05 21:08:33
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Hannah.r.k.24❤ :
I fear when I have my first baby I will force my mom and mil to come stay with me until their a yr old
2025-10-20 16:18:33
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Lija Inese :
6 weeks might be tough. Want to know what’s harder? Forever.
2025-10-01 14:29:56
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ꕥ 𝐸𝓂𝒶𝓁𝒾𝑒 ꕥ :
wish i could send this to my mom literally in a fight because of this
2025-09-05 20:40:13
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Cool moms shop :
I cannot wait to help in ways I wished I was but wasn’t. POSTPARTUM MAMA NEEDS FOOOOOOOOOOD all the time! Snacks! Breakfast! Snacks! Lunch! Snacks! More snacks! Dinner! Snacks! And yummy coffee at random times
2025-10-21 17:24:15
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Regina Phelange 👑🇨🇦 :
I’ll be paying for a night nurse if my DiL needs anything. I plan on being a support
2025-09-08 22:58:31
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Gemma Archer :
also, the fixation with wanting to be in the room when the baby is born??! Like I’m sorry, did you wanna be in the room next time we try for a kid as well? If you weren’t in the room when our child was conceived then you do not need to be in the room when our child is born🙄
2025-09-08 08:52:35
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Emily Luckadoo :
Yes momma as it should be. 🤍
2025-10-20 15:53:28
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105lys :
I’m so excited for my son to grow up and make these decisions
2025-09-05 20:53:47
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