@professorneil: Warning: I say the phrase ‘patriarchal dividend’ A LOT in this video

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mccoast
Ashley :
it's hard to see the privilege when you have problems in your life like depression and trauma and all the privilege you have doesn't help in any way, I think most people see problems in their lives better than they can see what they were privileged with
2025-09-07 04:21:20
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ondistantshores
OnDistantShores :
Dividend still isn’t a good analogy because at least you have to invest something upfront to own the shares, you have to sacrifice something. We men just get these benefits dropped in our lap.
2025-09-07 04:49:50
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debbie_dennis
Debbie Dennis :
If you've ever been called "Sir" without sarcasm, that's a "patriarchal dividend." Someone assumed you deserved respect just by looking at you.
2025-11-11 00:17:29
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peedubbee
Curious :
I’ve seen this most clearly in my trans male friends who’ve observed how society treats them differently after they’ve transitioned. Without doing a thing differently in the world, they are recipients of this dividend simply because the world sees them as men.
2025-09-07 12:20:45
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thenorthernanimator
the northern animator 🇨🇦 :
Use those patriarchal dividends to help and elevate others.
2025-09-07 06:46:38
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sooziwho
JustMeSoozi :
This is a big one. For white women too. Thank you!!
2025-09-07 05:55:50
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wannaberotator
whycantYouBetwo :
Men don’t get privileges just for being men, only the billionaires etc get large inheritances, middle class people might get their college paid for and a starter home but poor men get absolutely nothing and let’s not even get into different races and abilities. A charismatic athlete or musician is treated very differently than a poor physicist or an unfortunate homeless veteran.
2025-09-07 16:03:56
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markhughes11
Mark Hughes :
It’s the water I swim in and I often don’t see myself accessing those dividens. To be honest they are nice and my lesser self would love to turn a blind eye or pretend they are somehow earned. Self examination is work but An egalitarian society is what I want for my daughter.
2025-09-07 17:42:19
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daubie55
Divine Wind :
A dividend is only paid out on the capital expended to secure the asset. People don’t get access to it for just existing.
2025-09-19 10:19:11
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keithpagenelson
Keith Page 🇨🇦 :
As a big boy it’s not as free as you might think
2025-09-07 10:06:52
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nyc_rob_89
Rob :
Love Connell but I think Du Bois’ concept of the psychological wages of whiteness is also relevant if we extend it. Helps explain why men buy into patriarchy even as it makes them miserable.
2025-09-07 11:10:48
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shamrockurwrld
Shamrockurwrld 🌍 :
exactly - privilege that exists from birth is not earned or deserved
2025-09-07 07:16:13
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kliowattkelly
KLW Brown :
I think for men to divest from their patriarchal dividend, they have to be willing to sacrifice, and I think a lot of men recognize the problem. But they're not willing to sacrifice. They're still willing to let women do that.
2025-09-08 14:17:01
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elle.mp.20
Elle :
As someone who used to collect that dividend, there is one way to stop receiving payments! Wouldn't recommend it for most feminist allies though 🤣
2025-09-08 02:30:03
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basketmouth5
basketmouth5 :
Patrichial dividend- another crazy idea
2025-09-07 13:00:25
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j.flowers2
Jeremy :
This is great information.
2025-09-07 16:41:54
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peregrine553
user8394954109139 :
dividends also tend to accrue & miktiply
2025-09-07 20:19:16
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marcus.aurelius57
Marcus Aurelius :
masculinity studies lol
2025-09-08 02:27:06
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erasmus.b.draggon
Erasmus B. Draggon :
valid
2025-09-09 23:13:23
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sonya.rait
Sonya Rait :
thank you ❤️
2025-09-07 08:04:56
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kez08.80
Kez 🇦🇺 :
Their Australia, I never knew. Read a few papers of theirs too
2025-09-16 16:16:06
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i_dont_exist_111222
Emma :
The privilege pays the divi 😫
2025-09-09 11:47:22
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spikedgnocchi
SpikedGnocchi :
Tbh this is one of the main reasons why I haven't sought out any communities or have gone out dating. I'll never really know the worth that I give out to others because it'll always be tainted by this unwarranted social “dividend.”
2025-09-07 21:48:12
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alittlewordy
Little wordy 🇦🇺🇵🇸🏳️‍🌈 :
The Jonah jumpscare. Little TW please! 😂
2025-09-08 19:17:19
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carolineeanders
carolineeanders :
This is going to bother some. 👀
2025-09-07 13:15:57
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