You lost me at the word, the made up word, patriarchy. Can you change my tyre for me. Can you do my plumbing and scaffolding. Why don’t you open the door for me? I mean seriously? Why not?
2025-09-09 05:26:13
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Arabella 🌹 :
50-50 much better
2025-10-02 12:21:21
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Fujifilmguy :
so you want a free meal then
2025-09-09 03:36:33
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Dwhit :
If the other party becomes entitled then what?
2025-09-09 10:51:10
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Jeri Serpico :
Finish my post, sent too soon. so I believe women will enjoy the take charge man like I had in my time.
2025-09-09 01:02:52
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Red all the way! :
I always pay.
2025-09-09 04:14:43
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Misty Bee :
Meh! The most empowered I ever felt was leaving a date early and picking up the check. I was done with him and didn’t want him having any inkling that I owed him anything. I have always out earned the men I date though.
2025-09-09 04:43:28
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Sandy Jaramillo :
I'm lucky enough it's never been an issue with me and my dates. It makes my man feel like a gentleman to have me rely on him financially because he knows he relies on me in many non-financial ways. As a matter of fact, he gives me much credit for the success in building his business.
2025-09-08 18:03:24
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MikeWatsonfromthe480❌ :
how about we make a new rule? the person who asked the other person out pays regardless of gender
2025-09-09 00:50:41
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Chunkymonkey2512 :
I wouldn't want give the impression that he's getting something for it, so I'd rather go dutch
2025-09-09 08:20:11
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Amy6846Freddie :
absolutely at least first 3.
2025-09-13 18:56:12
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ken :
a gentleman man pays without expecting desert
2025-09-09 09:06:06
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VitoCorleone :
I tend to be a little more old fashioned regarding this. I would never ask or expect a female to pay on a date. That’s just me and how I was raised.
2025-09-09 16:22:34
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user118297327460 :
I was raised to always pay. Also counts when going out with guy friends, drinks after golf etc. never worry about it with guys, believe it always works out with time. That being said, if a guy really wants to pay, I let them. However, the women I have spent time with have been very successful, and when they want to pay I have learned to say no, since I’ve had the call the next day that they were disappointed I let them pay. Hate the games.
2025-09-08 18:46:05
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Cordan the cat 🇸🇪 :
I would never let a man pay for me. I want to be able to leave whenever I want, without him having any expectations of a "night cap".
2025-09-09 05:15:42
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paulbodine :
Privilege? What are you talking about?
2025-09-09 10:30:15
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Mike from Pa :
Kid I’m old school, if I’m pursuing you everything is on me! That’s what men do whether you set up a date or I do. Good luck.
2025-09-09 01:07:31
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SmilingOutLoud :
I’m on the fence about it.
2025-09-09 02:26:42
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tomgotlan :
so if I paid for a very nice dinner it would be really nice for the woman to make a meal at her house , it doesn't have to be something extravagant . I would bring the wine with some chocolates for dessert.
2025-09-09 03:35:56
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Leon :
Interesting topic! I believe it’s more about respect than money. How do you usually handle it on your dates?
2025-09-17 03:10:11
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Leah :
I would rather have domino who wants to do things for me besides financially. My ex husband thought because he provided income he didn’t have to do anything else. I would rather have a man make me dinner than buy me dinner. But I do feel like it’s gentleman like to pay for dates
2025-09-08 18:52:31
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🏴Andrea-M🇬🇧 :
If someone asks you out they pay😊
2025-09-09 03:10:28
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Brooklynfleavendor :
100%. It’s the principle behind it. It’s part of the date. Not just the monetary value. The perspective on the policy of dating a woman.
2025-09-09 16:00:19
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maximus..minimus :
Don’t over complicate things with rules, roles, and traditions. Do what comes natural keeping love, mutual respect, and gratitude for your partner in mind. That is all. People overthink everything and then lose the best things in their lives.
2025-09-09 03:07:22
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Jeri Serpico :
I have some jen-z friends and am seeing more men coming up to the plate to court, and taking charge of dating including planning dinner.
2025-09-09 00:47:08
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