@bulkdiaries: for those of you who have also had major weightloss, do you feel the same? what are some of your experiences with people? i'm starting to really struggle with this as i lose more and people are starting to interact with me more #relatable
I always say: "I don't hate myself because I'm fat, I hate myself because the world hates me because I'm fat"
2025-09-11 17:07:46
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esa :
lost some weight gained some rage
2025-09-11 15:43:40
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AlannahElevated🧘🏻🫶🏻💫 :
preach🙏 this is the most wildest realization!
2025-11-25 03:47:59
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MaggieKatJuarez :
pretty privilege fills me with rage
2025-09-11 20:44:38
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Maddie :
when i was 98kg I "had the audacity" and at 65 kg I "had thr confidence" to ACT THE EXACT SAME WAY
2025-09-15 08:26:12
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kerriblizzard :
My sister lost weight bc she was sick, when people would compliment her she would tell them that she was very ill and almost EVERY time they would say something like “at least you’re looking good”. She looked sick. They would rather us be dead than fat.
2025-09-11 18:23:50
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🖤 :
I’ve GAINED weight and it’s eye-opening (and so disappointing) how differently I’m treated by both men and women now.
2025-09-11 18:05:47
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Respect the Drip :
I lost weight and then gained I back and holy shit, gaining the humanity of a person in a smaller body and then losing it again was fucking hard.
2025-09-11 15:47:47
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Ren 🌟 :
Lost over 100 pounds- it’s 100000% because I’m no longer fat. I get treated better by family and friends, by coworkers, by complete strangers in public… it’s tiresome. Past me deserved to be loved and respected too.
2025-09-11 16:45:24
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saintsandmuses :
Yup I’ve gained weight and it’s like I’m invisible now 🙃
2025-09-11 14:19:01
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Od Q 🪲 :
IMPROVED IS INSANE
2025-09-11 03:56:13
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theon :
Craziest thing is that people genuinely don’t realize it. Fatphobia is so deeply ingrained in people’s minds they don’t see how differently and weirdly they treat fat people
2025-09-11 20:03:25
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♡ vee :
I’ve lost 72lbs and I’m literally less confident now and people still try to tell me that it’s about my confidence.
2025-09-11 04:05:35
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Cassia :
in addition, some people treat you worse after weight loss because they only liked the version of you they could look down on
2025-09-12 21:32:49
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🦎 :
ill never forgive the people who treated me poorly based on weight
2025-09-15 05:42:56
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Sandy Kay :
They really do be gaslighting us!! You are sooo right on ALL of this!
2025-09-11 01:43:04
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Erica Bailey :
men are starting to notice me again and I'm just creeped out 😂 like excuse me sir my husband loved me when I was model thin. he loved me when I put on weight from meds and even more with our kids. now I'm working on the trophy wife he deserves
2025-11-21 19:54:51
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Liz :
The way I deadass had this convo w my therapist yesterday and she was not getting itttt
2025-09-11 13:04:06
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Errka2🇵🇸 :
I also hate it when you lose it & people start treating you weird bc now they feel competitive w you
2025-09-11 16:01:43
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Kate Sanders :
This! It’s a different type of depression if you gain it back 😫 (especially when you see the difference)
2025-09-11 03:51:49
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rachelthompsonn75 :
Just me here screaming about “What Emma Never Knew” by Harlan Veynor again 😅
2025-09-25 18:09:48
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vancitychica🇵🇸🇺🇦 :
so many people have fatphobia and aren't even aware of it.
2025-09-16 06:29:52
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arsh :
and EVEN if it’s the confidence, why do they think people feel more confident? its cos everyone is nicer.
2025-09-11 15:12:32
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Les 🇨🇦 :
As a former skinny who is now fat af, I notice this so often in reverse: being treated ways I NEVER was when I was thin, having my work ethic, passion, and ability questioned and invalidated all of a sudden. My work ethic and passion hasn’t changed…just some people’s perception of me has
2025-09-17 00:32:07
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