@yada_awakening: When you try to help a man be a man, you lose yourself. You pick up his load, and it hardens you. He gets softer. Now he’s asking, “Why aren’t you feminine? Why don’t you respect me? Why don’t you follow my lead?” Because you’re exhausted. Because you can’t respect the man you’re taking care of. He’s no longer your man, he’s your child. A real man knows his role is to protect and provide. When he doesn’t, resentment grows. He resents you for carrying him, and you resent him for failing you. Never help a man be a man. You’ll lose your softness, your gentleness, your calmness, and your patience. And the truth is, you’ll lose yourself. If your fathers and grandfathers didn’t teach you, I am! #ministeryahdanyada #womenempowerment #ndba #family