@thegentleindifference: i just know the comments im gonna get on this one. enjoy, just something ive been thinking about lately. #philosophy #thoughts #idk #imgonnagetmadefunofbutohwell

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i.viia
via :
face card is lethal
2025-09-22 16:10:47
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serlicious
serlicious :
In a world that looks before it listens, a woman’s mind is too often asked to wait behind her appearance.
2025-09-18 16:42:54
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alyunarigszzzz
alyunarigszzzz :
Blonde? Wtf. Just say white area because not many ppl have blonde hair that’s a misconception. Only 2% of the world has blonde hair.
2025-09-30 23:14:20
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truffleandbass
MISS ALANA FEMME ā­ļø :
ur hair is soooo good
2025-09-18 05:14:34
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zeddythelittlefella
Zander :
this is the same for guysšŸ’”
2025-10-11 23:41:29
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bratzbeans
LaBettyfrijolera :
Can I add that when ur younger it’s ā€œur so weirdā€ and NOW it’s ā€œur so funny!ā€ like hm okay lol
2025-09-18 06:42:16
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us3rliya
Liya šŸ§Ÿā€ā™€ļø :
You’re very well articulated
2025-09-18 18:56:57
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imtightson
Imtightson :
Hey queen what’s good with eye bags?
2025-10-11 16:45:47
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swaeeluke
Swaeeluke :
I think you won when you chose yourself since the beginning. Choosing that authenticity no matter the feedback you received. I always feared taking on subjects like poetry or being perceived as an artist or nerdy simply because of the pressure that position seemed to entail. I never even stepped into it bc of how I thought I would be received. You embodied it and I hope you’re proud. We have pushed the feminine and masculine far out of balance, but I think it’s minds like yours and conversations like this that will bring the balance back!
2025-09-18 19:08:14
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ghost304s
ghost304s :
It’s for sure a lot more common for women. But I’ve experienced a lot of what you experienced as a man. The fact that at 22 I’m still growing into my appereance and getting a bit more attention is still foreign to me, when in school I was always called ugly and weird, and now the things I do aren’t ā€œweirdā€.
2025-09-18 14:32:10
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bthebrooklyn
brooklyn? :
thank you for vocalizing your thoughts in the way you do. expressed what i have felt internally for my entire life.
2025-09-18 15:49:38
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grandmagirma
girma :
Do you have a substack? I need more lol
2025-09-18 21:11:35
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richtastic67
Richāœļøastic67 :
I am sorry that had been your experience. I guess being weird is different for men and women. can confirm it sucks being the weird male as well.
2025-09-18 05:41:38
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cutest.cart
cutest.cart :
Wait you look like ari šŸ˜±šŸ˜
2025-09-26 18:12:45
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janesabrosnan
Janesssa :
I kinda get it, but also if I’m misunderstanding what you said, I’m sorry. I also felt weird and never taken seriously because of how I looked and stuff like my speech impediment so now it’s in the back the my mind that when I speak up more now, I can’t tell if they’re actually taking me seriously or just finding it entertaining. I’ve also felt like that underlying feeling of ā€˜otherness’ in group settings is still stuck at least for me because we learn it so young. Also I don’t mean to diminish any of what you’re feeling, but I want you to know I always admired you in school because of how smart, honest, and awesome you were and are. In school, It made me want to learn and grow more as a person. It’s really cool seeing you on here and talk philosophy.
2025-09-19 00:51:55
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itsmyw0rld3
#1 :
Tall and skinny….to CHUBBY and tall…then being masculinized….the only thing I was ever good for was my brain šŸ’€
2025-09-20 13:38:51
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kayla.geeee
your big sis 🌼 :
ā€œI’ve been every age before thatā€ im dead as fuuuuug šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚
2025-09-26 21:48:53
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catabokki
cato ā™” :
START A PODCAST. PLEASE.
2025-09-18 20:47:14
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samuel_jacob_lakew_owens
samuel_jacob_lakew_owens :
Well men are seen more as philosophers or gratified for it is because a man’s life is much more different to a women’s . A man’s life is a journey of overcoming challenge from all angles and appreciating one’s self while not falling apart . Women are brave and expressive which comes naturally but also a women’s life challenges are significantly different because of the metrics of society . Each person has their own equity but doesn’t stand on equal terms because as a whole the experience is different .( don’t respond if you haven’t understood this. ) most people stay conformed to society and I I’m still unraveling from this programming but you will know if people’s true interest through consistency of their actions
2025-09-19 01:10:14
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nemekko_
NƈMEKKO :
yep the veil of shame is so true. for being someone you’ve always been. shame when you’re younger because no one likes you. and shame when you’re older because now they like you but sometimes for the wrong reasons
2025-09-19 02:02:51
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kkedits_03
怐 KK 怑- ā­•ļøāƒ¤ :
I was just autistic and have adhd so I automatically got bullied for everything šŸ’”
2025-09-27 09:42:48
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thegrocerystoreofeve
eve :
No literally I’ve always been quiet and introverted, weird and awkward and I’ve always been this way yet it’s like the second I got hot I’m mysterious and cool now I’m a ā€œgood kind of weirdā€ which is just a way to admit I’m funny. I majored in media production and sociology did a lot of journalism and photography. People love that, are always super impressive with what I’m doing but if I was ugly I’d be labeled as a weirdo with a camera and I probably wouldn’t be able to pursue journalism bc no one gives women they deem unattractive time
2025-09-18 06:16:31
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thephilosophyofjesus
TheHumanist :
I've been thinking a lot about this very topic and you are 1000% right. It's because beauty and attraction is on a certain level an involuntary response, so it seems like truth or objective. And because we live in a society that INHERENTLY doesn't teach about the internal human experience and it's supremacy of value(Ie: who you are on the inside matters more than you look on the outside), we have no need for a self reflective society. Because it would utterly destroy the foundational beliefs that underlie the capitalistic system. On top of all of that if EVERYTHING of value is external to yourself, then the only way people can be seen as value or having it is if they fulfill a desire or want of yourself. It's the very beliefs that allow homelessness to be what it is and wars in Iraq a gcides in places like Gaza to go unnoticed. A human doesn't have inherent value, value is only determined by the public perception and the "value" they can potentially add to the experience of other individuals. This is also largely due to the fact we have a culture entirely based on celebrity worship that to actually evaluate the full effects it has on our system of rationalization is like asking a fish hows the water. But I will say overall you are spot on. It's a very unfair system you are living in and the mental strength needed to truly master yourself is much harder than it is for a man because you have so much institutional deconstructions you first gave to understand before you can even full come into your own as a person. With that said I can tell you have done a massive amount of work on this and are doing fantastic job. So from one weird person to another it's worth the journey, because your ability to learn and grow is built upon a foundation that YOU ALONE have built for yourself. So the ability to find the truth is going to be vastly easier for you because you dont rely upon the cultural "truths" everyone else uses to see and understand reality.
2025-09-22 04:20:08
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guwapoluis
luisdabro :
Dude ur so gorgeous why dont you model?
2025-09-23 01:55:03
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moonsthoughts11
alice ā­ļø :
yeah i relate to this. i’m eighteen now, not that i’ve gotten prettier or anything like that but it’s true that a whole category of things that i used to be passionate about when i was younger and that i still love now are now perceived differently and that reflects on me as a person and as a young woman. i was a weird kid obsessed with books, writing and ā€œnerdyā€ stuff, and when i was younger that made me ā€œweirdā€ and somehow alienated from other people my age. now that everything has become a race to media consumption and girls who read and write fit into that fetishized aspect of society, all of the sudden that’s cool and admirable. idk if it makes sense but your video resonated with me!
2025-09-18 09:46:23
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