Olesya Luraschi
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mascij :
"If he writes her a few sonnets, he loves her. If he writes her 300 sonnets, he loves sonnets"
2025-09-19 12:08:26
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Yana :
That’s why you love your partner with their love language and not with your love language, and vice versa.
2025-09-19 18:42:04
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user6719947101124 :
all this advice assumes good faith from the other person. yes, try to understand what makes them happy. but also be aware of them refusing to do that for you.
2025-11-29 11:47:03
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my ex-husband told me I didn't appreciate him. No matter what I did, that was his message.
2025-09-19 10:06:08
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D0nn1e G :
My wife and I are separated and I think our main problem is that she doesn't feel loved by me and I don't feel appreciated by her. Probably at least one of us has partnership responsiveness blindness. When I don't feel appreciated I have a hard time showing love and when she doesn't feel loved by me it's hard for her to show appreciation and respect
2025-09-19 03:04:58
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tding6 :
Everyone has a love currency. Communicate to find out what their currency is.
2025-09-18 19:12:51
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johanson732 :
Its lack of accountability
2025-09-19 06:30:05
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Becky :
He promised to get me flowers more often when i said i felt unappreciated because he never gets me flowers unless i spend the night before crying and i wanted to receive flowers once in a while because i love flowers and then he just didn’t get me one for a full year and when i pointed it out he said that i was being unreasonable for being so dead set on flowers and not settling for what i was getting because he’s too busy for flowers. Am i the problem?
2025-09-22 08:37:44
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Tibialis :
Too complicated
2025-09-19 02:13:45
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ang3lfears :
What if the person who feels like they’re giving their all to the person who doesn’t feel loved or cared for is actually just doing the bare minimum? In that case, the relationship is doomed right?
2025-09-19 20:29:21
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SquishMew :
I used to be fearful avoidantly attached to my anxiously attached partner. Now I'm securely attached and annoyed every day by the anxiously attached partner. I keep trying to help him heal but it's not quite working.
2025-09-19 13:31:09
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Mikah :
That's why I try loving my partner in all love languages
2025-09-21 12:33:08
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osjuice :
All of this also applies to your relationship with your parents and kids. What sets the initial responsiveness in a person? So love is just a better perceived partnership responsiveness?
2025-09-18 18:29:41
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platinumnotions :
My ex husband’s love language was compliance 😂
2025-09-22 19:53:38
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Amanda 🐝 :
This is very real, and I can even recognize myself in it. But at the same time, I very intentionally go out of my way to show the people I love that I appreciate them in ways I KNOW they will notice/appreciate- I tailor how I show love to them based on who they are and take time to get to know them with that in mind. In my personal experience most people are just projecting how they feel loved on to others, which is self centered in nature & often leads to the other person not seeing it, and tbh I don’t think it’s the other persons fault. If you aren’t loving someone with intention and awareness of who they are to make sure they feel loved, then you need to do better tbh. There is nuance to this ofc, but I just think too many people are on autopilot in their relationships.
2025-10-29 09:21:29
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nooooooooouyrieben8178 :
My partner will do everything but what I need him to. He will do all the chores etc but never ask me how my week is going…
2025-09-30 01:19:54
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quake86_ :
Number one reason relationships fail: lack of gratitude….of respect. I never heard of a marriage or relationship ending because of too much respect
2025-09-20 20:43:30
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tasha🧚🏼♀️ :
I’m definitely the second one. I have trauma and anxious attachment but I do see it now and I want to change for my partner
2025-09-19 00:35:41
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TheOwl :
Went to my wife, “we have to fix our perceived responsivenessessesse…” She replied, “get off the damn Tik Tokers!”
2025-09-24 08:36:47
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giffboe :
IMO, the love languages are valid. Our problem might be we over think everything.
2025-09-19 08:41:16
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_amyzzle_ :
More evidence I need therapy 🥲 In my 15 years of relationship experience, I have still never learnt to accept or understand that my other half loves me & won't one day abandon me. I do generally recognise & appreciate efforts but they're usually in the form of actions without words or words without actions & neither combo can convince me he will stay or why he loves me. I have a disorganised attachment style as a result of childhood trauma & it's very exhausting.
2025-09-19 23:19:29
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user1591908141040 :
Meh marriage is not worth it
2025-09-19 11:15:44
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elly :
i would do all the cooking and cleaning and taking care of my ex's elderly parents. i would tell him i loved him and use words of affirmation. i would do everything - and he would call me a freeloader, a gold digger (i paid for everything myself), and call me useless. nothing i did made him understand i loved him.
2025-09-20 03:33:22
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SundayNights22 :
money
2025-11-13 09:08:37
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Iara Sousa :
I’ve been with my partner for 5 years. The first 2.5 were figuring this out. I thought he didn’t love me, I realized he loved me to death, just expressed it differently from me
2025-09-25 09:28:30
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