@christwithus78: Never say this in a fight with your spouse." These 6 rules can save your marriage during conflict. No name-calling, no shouting, no bringing up the past—and never threaten divorce. Build unity, not walls. #christiantikok #christianmotivation #bible #Marriage #ConflictResolution
1. Never name call. 2. Never raise your voice. 3. Do not get historical, love does not keep record of wrongs. 4. Never say never or always. 5. Never threaten divorce. 6 Never quote your pastor
2025-09-23 21:14:41
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Angelhomes :
Archeological digs occur because things have never changed.
2025-09-19 22:14:16
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Hope and Gavin 🐷 :
Not my serial cheating husband reposting this 😭
2025-09-20 04:39:09
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ABC :
How can you not bring up the past if the patterns continue and the same thing keeps occurring ?
2025-09-23 18:23:26
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temperance 11 11 :
What if If things from the past were never resolved and were consistently dismissed ?
2025-09-19 14:11:05
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Jo.and.Co.1776 :
However, the past must be dealt with. If not, it WILL continue to come up.
2025-09-24 20:41:42
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user8675309 :
I agree with all of these. However sometimes going into the past is necessary for explaining an ongoing pattern of behavior that is causing damage and has never been repaired (Like abusive behavior for example). I think that is why repair is so important because it gives people the trust to move forward. But just doing it to throw stones and attack is not okay.
2025-09-19 23:51:49
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swalk760 :
The issue is when people repeat the same toxic hurtful behavior it’s difficult not to remind them of the pattern that is causing the troubles.
2025-09-24 04:35:03
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Bekah :
Married 20 yrs…100% on all. Especially the divorce card. I’d take it a step farther to never threaten to leave.
2025-09-23 15:32:31
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Scott Hanner :
being with someone you don't have to argue with ever is pretty sweet. 5 years together and shy of a month married and we haven't argued because we communicate like adults
2025-09-19 21:41:33
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Florida_Boy :
#7. Don’t send this to your Wife 😅
2025-09-28 01:15:20
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Rae.juvenate 🤍 :
Another BIG one for us is to never cuss. Not at each other especially, but just at all. It only intensifies the disagreement or argument in a negative way
2025-09-22 14:38:03
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Jessie Garcia :
Never involve anyone else
2025-09-19 19:57:21
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BaeBeeWarren :
Things that were hurtful but never acknowledged will often be brought up again because those things are still unresolved.
2025-09-21 04:43:44
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Katilda :
The historical one is tough. I absolutely agree that past resolved wrongs shouldn’t be thrown in someone’s face. But if it happens again, I don’t want to just pretend that he didn’t just completely rip old wounds wide open & I can guarantee, the past is gonna come up. How do I reconcile that?
2025-09-19 22:21:19
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Blazeriley69 :
if they dont take accountability past will always come up, or if they do it again past will come up
2025-09-29 12:42:34
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meagenneagle :
these rules are awesome to incorporate in your marriage
2025-09-26 01:04:11
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Remmington J. :
Those are tough brother but she is worth it
2025-09-20 12:29:57
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Ronda Weiss :
there are no historical digs IF you resolve them. If your still in the marriage then one could assume they are forgiven.
2025-09-20 13:18:03
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_millie_n13 :
1. No name calling 2. Do not raise your voice 3. Do not get historical 4. Never say never or always 5. Do not threaten divorce or leaving 6. Do not quote your pastor
2025-09-22 02:06:31
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Ronda Weiss :
this is ALL truth!
2025-09-20 13:15:34
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comopatriot :
Good advice!!! Lots of wisdom here 👍
2025-09-19 04:28:56
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You can call me Ed :
“Cancel the record of the debt (the wrong)” is so powerful
2025-10-07 07:26:06
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Kuntrygrl❌️ :
Take it from a wise older woman....this is 1000% accurate!! Create good habits, not bad ones. Be disciplined, consistent, hold yourself accountable and show grace til you both get there.
2025-09-26 15:01:26
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