Why are we always up in it? Does this not apply to WOMEN? Why did you single out BLACK WOMEN??
2025-09-19 20:26:10
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Wax Melt Goddess :
Yeah this is not it…live in ur truth!!! Ppl do not have to accept what they don’t want…there r plenty of women that willingly accept n date bi men…I’m not taking accountability for someone else’s choice to be dishonest…
2025-09-19 17:59:56
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Godiva Empress :
Lord they done put us in something again ugghh
2025-09-27 00:51:40
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tkelly :
I would rather stay single for the rest of my life!
2025-09-21 06:43:07
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BROWN_SHUGA_BABE!😘😘 :
So why should that be a “black womans” burden to bear now before you say that’s not what you meant the target in your video is black woman …we get handed this long list of things to accept from black men it’s a different goal post everyday instead of this video targeting black woman this should have been a video encouraging them to be up front and honest and to try other races that may be accepting
2025-09-20 02:16:42
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figment_of_imagination11 :
This is the same reasoning for why people are not upfront about having stds. They dont want their options limited so they dont disclose their status. All cycles will continue until people learn to love themselves and learn that rejection doesnt affect their value.
2025-09-19 16:36:21
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Turquoisemonae :
We have nothing to do with it 🤦🏽♀
2025-09-20 00:31:06
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RavensRevenge :
Or they could just date women that are ok with it. If a woman isn't ok with that, shes not for you, go find the one that is🙂
2025-09-20 00:00:03
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nya :
and WHO set that system up?
2025-09-19 23:44:48
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Mothajay :
It’s more complicated then that I believe I feel as though it starts in the home first, black men aren’t dl because black women don’t date bisexual men, it has more to do with home environments and the homophobia perpetuated by family members. In addition to the promotion of hypermasculinity in our community amongst black men. plenty of openly bisexual men are fine and dandy and out even in the face of casual homophobia by black women/heterosexual black women not wanting to date bi men. That is due partially in my opinion to people’s home environments being non hostile. However Hostile Familial environments, hostile religious environments and black “machismo”hyper masculinity creates more dl men than just casual homophobia found in dating preferences in my opinion.
2025-09-20 12:41:58
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💛🦋Kree-K🦋NebulaQueen🦋💛 :
Well, allow the women to make their choice with THE TRUTH of who they are😳😳😳
2025-09-20 02:40:41
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theauthenticbaddie :
What! That’s a dangerous game for a woman 🧍🏽♀
2025-09-20 04:13:43
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StayOffMe :
We don’t have to…
2025-09-21 03:34:14
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phe :
Oh brother
2025-09-20 14:08:22
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chocolatepamm :
Disagree
2025-09-20 08:53:25
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Hailey :
So how is that our fault?
2025-09-19 21:50:30
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meeee :
you look like my cousin + completely agree, I been saying this. We can't keep treating "DL" men as if they're some sort of unique epidemic of cheaters and liars as opposed to bisexual men forced into the closet and made to perferm masculinity. It also plays into the biphobic and homophobic rhetoric that black men spread AIDS to black women by being DL or, worse, that they do so intentionally. That lie has set us back decades and what drives me crazy is that it's based off of ONE woman's experiene in the early 2000s 😭 until black women can stomach the idea of a man being bisexual, bisexual men will lie to them. I think it's also important to remember that the betrayal is in the cheating, not who he cheated with. A lot of DL men just so happen to be manipulators and narcissists and they would be that way whether they liked men or not 😭
2025-09-19 15:06:57
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Carolyn Whiting175 :
No...never😳
2025-09-20 02:20:14
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🌹China🌹 :
sounds like the bottom line is cowardice
2025-09-20 02:17:24
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Nicolececiliaaaaa :
Yes ppl must stop bashing bi men or they will never be open
2025-09-19 23:03:04
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capture by April :
it's not black women fault...until they STAND in there truth then lie will continue to destroy them
2025-09-20 00:22:40
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notpregnantjustphat :
Let’s not act like gay black men don’t weaponize DL black men. You guys are one of the reason (not the only reason) why they hide their sexuality. You guys hold it over their heads, threaten to expose them, you’ve spent the last 30 plus years telling black women to watch out for them.
2025-09-20 14:53:43
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HollyHeauxlightly :
The obsession with black women is crazy.
2025-09-20 13:43:34
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Aglenn :
Don't blame us for them lying! They are not living their truth because they care about what other men think! Y'all created this system and now are blaming women for it 🙄
2025-09-21 06:00:08
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