Riven (they/them)
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Caramel Frapz :
People really underestimate how exhausting commissions can get, please don’t beat urself up mental health is priority 💜
2025-09-20 20:52:00
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breakingsasuke :
it is hard to admit being wrong and being angry in itself is just so exhausting and overall not healthy. it takes the bigger person to acknowledge mistakes and just taking a deep breath. yes, taking a break is probably for the best. social media is just full of garbage and effect mental health. i feel like it is also why people arguing behind a screen is just so unproductive as well, i hope you do heal~ you’re art is great and i am happy that you will continue to do it and for yourself! that is why creating and drawing is so satisfying in the first place~ 💙
2025-09-21 00:40:14
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gothibun :
you're making the right choise! bonus when you do return, you won't have posting/project pressure either due to letting go of things. I do recommend taking side hobbies, when main one is this important in life btw. helps surprisenly much mentally.
2025-10-11 01:51:13
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ArtfullyElyse :
I totally get where you're coming from, it's been hard lately and as someone who was homeschooled and has been trying to make art a career for the better part of 15-17 years, I can relate to this on a deep level. please take care of yourself Riven, I love your art and know others do too, and we'll be here whenever you come back 💜💜
2025-09-20 21:13:25
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Lune :
I admire you so much for making this decision and prioritizing your well-being. Social media is a toxic place to build a business, I feel you so much.
2025-10-03 18:36:12
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Ryan Tam :
Please take all the time you need to find your love for art again. I know where you are right now mentally, and I’m sending so much love to you 💛 step away, take a break, and stay safe
2025-09-20 22:21:47
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carrionpigeon :
This is a difficult decision to come to, you should be proud of yourself for making it. I was told my whole life to be an artist because it was the only think I was “good” at and passionate about. Between art classes and doing commissions almost full time, I was so burnt out. I had to come to the conclusion it wasn’t the path for me. I pivoted careers and I’m happier than ever. It’s taken me years to recover and now art is finally a fun hobby again and not something I look at with guilt and dread. I will only ever draw what I want now, and I wouldn’t have it any other way! You know you best, and if you say this is the best decision for you, then it is. I hope nothing but good things for you, good luck with everything :-)
2025-09-22 23:07:18
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Valkyrie - Zayne’s Wife :
omg i literally just followed you today so im sad to see you go, but i completely understand how you feel!! we all have our issues and no body is perfect! i hope you’re able to find happiness in art again because that is what it should be about! we will all be here when and if you decide to come back so please take time to enjoy your life and spend time doing what you love! im wishing you the best 🩷🩷
2025-09-21 02:41:23
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🤡🎪★Silly String☆🎪🤡 :
Take all the time you need to heal and get back into creating again❤️You and your health always comes first
2025-09-21 03:08:46
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RissNya.Art :
Do art for yourself! Learn to love art again. You deserve to feel passionate about your art.
2025-09-21 02:18:13
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Chiara🥟 :
man, this sucks so much for you. I hope you can get better and find your love for art again. I struggled so much with creative stuff back when I was in a slump and being able to draw again after all that almost made me cry. I don't know fully what you're going through but I truly hope you get better soon🫶🏽 do what's best for your health and the netizens will have to deal with it on their own
2025-09-21 12:51:51
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ZombieMaiden :
Completely understandable. Art should be enjoyable and fulfilling and if that outlet is not bringing you that then it’s good to take a step back and breathe. You take care of yourself and hug your babies and husband tight 🫀
2025-09-21 03:55:53
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Bumbles :
Take as long as you need friend! we'll still be here when you come back! 💙
2025-09-20 21:11:49
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myhoneeybear.vr :
People really underestimate how much constant what commission work is like. It’s non stop. You have no way of taking a break and you have to rely on just yourself not just to handle marketing but also a posting schedule, transactions, and so much more. It’s not that easy. I would always suggest having a backup plan in case this doesn’t work out. Have something that you can consistently fall back on without having to open more commission slots over time
2025-09-21 04:36:03
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Error🪠🦆 :
take care of yourself ❤️❤️hope everything gets better soon
2025-09-20 20:17:41
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Yukimi 🦋☕️Author•Artist☕️🐉 :
Have a lot in common 😭 homeschooled and been trying to make a career of art for the better of 15 years. support system is small here too irl. I totally understand the struggle and stress; take all the time you need to recenter, find yourself, and your love of art again. 💜💜💜 I hope you can find community too. I’m slowly finding it in my small town, via the library. Maybe they can be a starting point to see if there’s any groups like writing or crafty stuff or anything that might help find connection/likeminded individuals to build community. Sending hugs 🫂 💜
2025-09-21 04:34:31
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MINKI :
I am so sorry for everything you’re going through, I understand how overwhelming and frustrating it can feel to have an art career that drains instead of rehabilitate. Feeling as if you can’t draw without it being for the sole purpose of working for someone else is a difficult spot to be in, I’m glad you’re choosing to put your well-being first. Even if it may feel like giving up, your art will thrive alongside you. Take all the time you need, draw when you feel like it, no expectations necessary.
2025-09-20 20:24:40
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Keirin :
oh my gosh... we have so much in common 😭 every bit of what you're talking about, I identify with so hard, except you have the added pressure of being a parent on top of it all 😭😭 I love you - you're not alone in how you're feeling
2025-09-21 00:46:51
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Phie Green :
The self reflection here is very mature. You are growing 💚 and learning but on the right track with this.im sure this wasn’t easy for you to make, but this is the time to take care of who matters most- you.
2025-09-21 02:16:29
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LiliVic Creations :
I'm in the same boat and commissions for me are becoming unsustainable. I don't even like drawing anymore, not even for myself. The world is constantly on fire and we're all so tired and angry. Please take some time for yourself. We all need a break from everything every once in a while. 💜
2025-09-21 01:28:31
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Squishy :
So sorry about that, it’s very strong of you to realize what you need to do to help yourself I hope you flourish under less pressure
2025-09-21 22:34:20
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ᝰ mochip^᪲᪲᪲₊𖹭⋆.ೃ࿔.｡˚ :
I really hope you can retrieve your passion again, its so hard to see an artist to go through this TT
2025-09-23 16:12:04
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A Kelley :
all your points are so valid. Art is so sacred and personal to each individual. I also stopped taking commissions and have been so much happier for it. I hope to see more personal art!! Also, you're only human. Take care of yourself friend
2025-09-21 19:05:12
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Dr BatLock :
Take care of yourself. Cant wait to see the art you do for your own happiness
2025-09-21 17:08:06
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blacksnow18 :
Sounds like you’re at a great start to the inner work.
2025-09-21 22:04:18
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