Tell The Bees
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Sunday 21 September 2025 17:00:28 GMT
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elainesantore7 :
End the Boyfriend Industrial Complex! Used to be a boyfriend person and it’s so embarrassing. Take him off your lock screen, your wallpaper, your IG bio — it’s never reciprocated.
2025-09-26 05:39:12
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B. :
Making my way over to substack to read Boyfriendland.
2025-09-21 18:45:55
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dumplings4dinner :
It’s also status claiming. They want to show that they have been chosen and have something that is ‘coveted’
2025-09-21 19:23:55
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Paige Michelsen :
ITS JUST SOME GUY
2025-09-21 17:16:27
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kieran :
tbh I think a lot of this is also just flexing about not being single. in an era of increasing social isolation and loneliness it’s a status symbol to be partnered
2025-09-21 20:11:12
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meeee :
wait i'm so confused, girls have tiktok accounts that are solely dedicated to their boyfriends? like they stan him? or like
2025-09-21 17:47:20
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CMJA :
i’m so glad that you are calling out how these acts are almost *never* reciprocated lmao
2025-09-21 23:02:41
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:p :
Boyfriend fit boyfriend jeans. It’s in our vocabulary too.
2025-09-21 23:42:38
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Sarluna :
The worst is uninterested boyfriend’s opinion on a typically female hobby or media. Ex. My boyfriends opinion on x tv show etc. Or boyfriends opnion fashion/beauty, I rather die then known which outfit you boyfriend prefers
2025-09-21 17:14:45
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jackie :
i mean this w zero hate but even the feminist strong women on the internet will use their men as a retort when they’re threatened (drew, alicia, etc come to mind)
2025-09-22 10:19:41
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Lily :
it's also interesting that the boyfriendland only goes viral for European boyfriend or boyfriends who are racialized as white. I don't see "Somalian boyfriend tries TX chili"
2025-09-21 19:13:40
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brenda kelly :
Then there are the girls who post their roommates bf instead. “Showing my roommates bf *insert TikTok trend here*”. It’s so weird cuz hes not even at least yours. But truly anything to post a man.
2025-09-21 20:51:58
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roz :
It’s also often incredibly infantilising in tone, in a way that seems to suggest we should be treating them like little boys when we are not afforded the same generosity of nativity and inferiority
2025-09-21 20:35:06
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Himé Vaughn :
My man, my man, my man
2025-09-21 21:55:35
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“i want to call out the fact that this is not reciprocated” 😮💨
2025-09-22 00:47:51
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Raised By Donuts :
Lol I remember a content creator in South Africa bringing this up and the girls in the comments were LIVID. "I love him, so what?!" "It's giving jealousy". 🤣😂 Gosh, I wish I could find the video.
2025-09-21 18:15:24
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yo mama princess :
my show is on
2025-09-21 17:06:13
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Iheartthe90s :
Media in general has become VERY critical of men lately, for good reason. However, the truth is that not “all” men are bad, lazy, disloyal, hypocritical, fascist, etc. etc. So it leads women who are partnered with “good” men to want to stick up for them.
2025-09-21 17:15:44
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TriniJane :
‘Golden retriever’
2025-09-21 20:27:44
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emma :
there have also been a few studies that show the correlation between frequently posting your partner and being unhappy in relationships!
2025-09-21 18:23:58
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Anni ♡ :
I feel like so many of those types of creators heavily infantilize their boyfriends too, it’s super odd
2025-09-21 22:35:11
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tuhleeeeuh :
As a girl with a boyfriend he’s kinda like a mythical creature lol I don’t bring him up and I usually leave his ass at home when I leave the house
2025-09-21 22:03:32
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Katkin Filmtok :
Why are we always celebrating men for the bare minimum? Or just doing a good job? It's so exhausting. You can to the best you've ever done but man will get praised. The whole society is male-centered.
2025-09-21 20:08:22
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Rachelle Lavoie 🍉 :
“try guy cheater” 😏😂
2025-09-21 20:14:22
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Lyt Parfait :
Don’t even get me started on the “*husband/boyfriend’s occupation* wife/girlfriend” in the bio…..
2025-09-22 12:17:59
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