once I accepted this I stopped over-explaining myself.
2025-09-22 21:31:52
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C H A N T A L :
Never complain and never explain.💯
2025-10-12 06:45:46
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G King :
Pay attention
2025-10-17 19:56:35
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FestiveMe :
Nothing is neutral and everything is interpreted through the filter of bias based one people’s lived experiences.
2025-09-23 00:49:26
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HealsAllDay :
“How you hear me shows me exactly who you are” #BARS
2025-09-21 20:36:41
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Stella P :
🫵👏👏👏🔥well explained Ty 4 sharing
2025-10-17 20:57:38
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Stephanie Gabriel :
“Don’t project bad character on me…” 💯
2025-09-23 16:28:28
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ShannonLeePT :
Preach!
2025-10-17 11:16:45
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BethL8888 :
Stop and listen. You learn so much about them. What’s said and unsaid
2025-09-23 02:46:54
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RF 🥳 :
That & some people are Ego-centered listeners . They apply everything to themselves for some reason
2025-09-23 17:06:53
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Kay :
Heavy on the “how you hear me shows me who you are ”. If I’m coming to you speaking through love cause I care and you see it otherwise shows the inner work that they need to do! That’s a them problem. If I’m trying to work with you and not against you it’s cause I’m still caring. If I’m not talking baby then …… it speaks for itself!
2025-09-21 20:52:31
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PublicLavaLamp :
meet people where they are so you can take them where you want them to be
2025-09-23 10:35:17
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DebsJ80 :
I just had this conversation. im responsible for my word and my intentions not your interpretation and perception
2025-09-22 18:12:33
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amber laremont :
Daily. DAILY. I DEAL WITH THIS DAILY. SO EXHAUSTING
2025-09-22 14:02:46
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theshamelessblackgirl :
CORRECT
2025-10-17 11:17:37
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Assault :
How you hear me says more about you than it does about me. Some people don’t listen to understand they listen to confirm what they already think. They twist my words to fit their perception, and no matter how clear or honest I am, what they choose to see in me becomes their reality. Understanding isn’t about me it’s about the willingness to open your mind and heart. And some people simply refuse to do that
2025-09-22 01:32:27
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IAMEXPERIENCE :
Fact like fire 🔥🔥🔥
2025-09-30 15:37:52
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Nayann :
I can’t save this 😩
2025-10-12 15:39:58
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Norah :
Negative mindset everywhere. When you are having a conversation someone in their right senses, and things go off. Try to understand why they are defensive it’s might be a misunderstanding, not everything means someone is projecting something.
2025-10-13 13:09:19
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Thisisformeonly :
I’ll agree with you about who you think I am and then disappear
2025-09-22 03:16:16
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💋 yai_notBBy ⁉️ :
I needed this today 🙏🏻
2025-10-14 14:31:00
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Shangel | Healing Quest 🌈 :
I SPENT TWO YEARS BATTLING WITH A PARTNER THAT HEAR SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT FROM WHAT I SAID. I WAS EXHAUSTED IN CONFUSION SO MUCH SO I STARTED THINKING AM I SAYING THAT! #DRAINING
2025-09-23 13:36:46
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OLAyemi :
why can't I download this 😏
2025-09-22 12:52:12
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Lindsay :
I say what I mean. You hear what you want. Those don’t = the same conversation
2025-09-22 21:03:54
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Maidens Voyage :
This is incredible and true 🙏🏻❤
2025-09-22 15:35:19
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