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We forget that we can TEACH our kids how to read the room. Being able to read the room is crucial to learning how to communicate effectively as a human. Timing is everything. The long-term goal isn’t just that they learn to be patient for the sake of it, but that they build a transferable skill. We want them to use their brains to understand why they need to wait. When I have the time and space to explain, I like to guide them through the situation instead of only saying “you need to wait.” Of course there are still moments I say that, but when I can, I connect the abstract idea of waiting to something concrete. I use the five senses to do this. For example: “Look at what my hands are doing. They’re busy. Can my hands get you that toy right now? No. When you see my hands stop working, that’s when I can help you.” You can use any sense to make it click for a child: What do you see? Do you hear that sound? Do you smell that? That’s dinner cooking, so it’s almost ready. Do you see dinner on the table yet? No, so it’s not ready. These sensory cues help kids connect what’s happening around them to what’s being asked of them. When we engage their brains like this, we’re helping them observe and reason for themselves, not just memorize “wait.” To adults, this kind of explanation might sound rude or passive aggressive because we’d never talk this way to each other. It comes across that way because adults don’t need this kind of step-by-step reasoning. We have fully developed frontal lobes . We can make the logical leaps on our own. Little kids can’t yet, so we help them build that bridge by walking them through the logic until their brains can do it independently. And your tone when delivering this lesson is important ! You can be kind and gentle while still being firm. This is how we teach them to read the room. #kelsewhatelse #howtotalktolittlekids #midwesternmom #teachkidshowtocommunicate
We forget that we can TEACH our kids how to read the room. Being able to read the room is crucial to learning how to communicate effectively as a human. Timing is everything. The long-term goal isn’t just that they learn to be patient for the sake of it, but that they build a transferable skill. We want them to use their brains to understand why they need to wait. When I have the time and space to explain, I like to guide them through the situation instead of only saying “you need to wait.” Of course there are still moments I say that, but when I can, I connect the abstract idea of waiting to something concrete. I use the five senses to do this. For example: “Look at what my hands are doing. They’re busy. Can my hands get you that toy right now? No. When you see my hands stop working, that’s when I can help you.” You can use any sense to make it click for a child: What do you see? Do you hear that sound? Do you smell that? That’s dinner cooking, so it’s almost ready. Do you see dinner on the table yet? No, so it’s not ready. These sensory cues help kids connect what’s happening around them to what’s being asked of them. When we engage their brains like this, we’re helping them observe and reason for themselves, not just memorize “wait.” To adults, this kind of explanation might sound rude or passive aggressive because we’d never talk this way to each other. It comes across that way because adults don’t need this kind of step-by-step reasoning. We have fully developed frontal lobes . We can make the logical leaps on our own. Little kids can’t yet, so we help them build that bridge by walking them through the logic until their brains can do it independently. And your tone when delivering this lesson is important ! You can be kind and gentle while still being firm. This is how we teach them to read the room. #kelsewhatelse #howtotalktolittlekids #midwesternmom #teachkidshowtocommunicate

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