Honestly, I’m not here to tell you not to leave your life or what to do. There’s no I’m right and you’re wrong answer. However, I’m a firm believer in getting married and waiting a year up money, making sure you’re stable, enjoying the married life and then having children, and you later because once you have kids, you won’t be able to live freely.
2025-09-24 07:07:12
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horseshowgrad :
My advice is to not make permanent decisions now and instead get married, have a honeymoon, enjoy life and live and then your heart will desire children at some point but you’re young!
2025-09-22 15:58:44
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sccrower2003 :
This honestly happened to my husband and I. We got married and just lived our lives because we were happy. We’ve now been together 11 years and I’m in my late 30’s and I don’t think kids will happen. And honestly? We are really happy and comfortable with our life. the relationship does change with kids and we just don’t feel like it’s for us. Doesn’t help with the current state of the country either 🤷🏻♀
2025-09-25 13:42:51
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natalie_sifferman :
Just wait! 💕you have time!! Do it in your 30s if you both want it! It can strengthen your bond ✨
2025-09-22 21:41:09
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user3166160132176 :
My life went from black and white to full color when I became a mom. Being a parent brings so much purpose & fulfillment. You can never be closer to your spouse without both of you drawing closer to Christ. It’s like a triangle. You think you are close but when you both draw near to God you will be the closer to each other.
2025-09-22 15:23:45
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marinarice :
Be positively sure before you decide to have children. Some people are just as happy without.
2025-09-23 02:17:34
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Gabby :
Be intentional with each other throughout the whole process! Lots of grace and forgiveness for each other! have all the babies they make everything better! Do not be afraid 🌸
2025-09-22 18:30:39
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JODI KEENAN :
Just take your time. It is not the death of a relationship if you are on the same page and want to raise the kids in the same way. Your relationship will get stronger because you are a team and you are just adding to your team. Just have tough conversations before having kids and not after.
2025-09-22 21:33:10
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where_is_catalina_now :
It is wonderful that people stop and think about becoming parents! Parenthood is wonderful but it is not for everyone! Being a parent is for life and the worry will never stop. Some people are overwhelmed and really do not have the selfless love to give. Being focus on yourself is not bad. But it is importsnt to know that and know what you want and do it because you want children and not because other people have them or because the society dictates it to be the next step after getting married. Bravo for being so responsible to ask yourself this question.
2025-09-22 18:55:09
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Michelle Har :
Have children, its always is the right choice if you two are strong together. Always be on the same page, put eachother first and it will be the most rewarding gift.
2025-09-23 15:00:10
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Luv The Beach :
Have kids 🙏 ❤️it’s part of our purpose ✝
2025-09-23 04:37:30
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user2136502797803 :
It’s scary but you will become so much closer
2025-09-22 18:31:35
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Dana :
It will get better & kids are a great addition- don’t wait too long
2025-09-23 00:21:57
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user8321895563321 :
Just take it one day at a time
2025-09-22 17:47:02
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LillyLilz :
I say wait until you are ready!!! enjoy yourselves
2025-09-23 01:38:29
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Earth and Bubbles :
If I could do it all over again, I wouldn’t have kids. I love them. But I missed out on so much.
2025-09-23 02:19:36
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Jeanette :
It’s not the death of the relationship it enhances it, to create a little person that’s from both of you is so much fun!
2025-09-22 19:54:37
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Diane Jenkins :
I'm fine with no kids. Everyone has to make their own decision but I agree it changes EVERYTHING!
2025-09-22 17:37:24
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LK :
Wait awhile, have fun enjoy each other, there is plenty of time.
2025-09-22 17:50:35
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Janis Dolce :
You both have so much love between you and so much to give to your children ❤
2025-09-22 17:25:13
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tatiana10159 :
Have children and my God deal with the rest. Worry about it. The Lourdes will give you strength and encourage to continue every day to raise your child. You’re not in the ways of Lourdes. There’s nothing that you need to fear for the Lauren says do not fear with you. I will never leave you not for you, so when you are in doubt, and you’re not sure if you should have children call up on the email Board and ask him a sign. Asking to give you a revelation because children truly different different. They are amazing and they’re wonderful. Created by our heavenly father.
2025-09-24 07:09:55
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horseshowgrad :
No one regrets having kids but I know so many women that realize too late how much they wish they had children.
2025-09-22 15:57:08
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tatiana10159 :
and honestly, I think 1000% children are blessing from God and having children is the best decision you could ever be for your life. It will change your perspective. It will give you joy peace y’all just be so much happier having children. There is always this that we have in our lives and children fill that missing piece. Also, don’t worry about your relationship being different. If anything, your relationship is gonna get stronger because you’re gonna see how your husband steps up for you. When you are dealing with the babies.
2025-09-24 07:08:52
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horseshowgrad :
I have never been more in love with my husband than seeing him become a dad. It’s awe inspiring.
2025-09-22 15:57:32
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jacobdamienband :
Hold off. It can’t hurt. Enjoy each other as long as you can. Besides, I couldn’t bring a child into this world the way things are going…I would be terrified every day
2025-09-29 10:25:23
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