The fact is when you care too much they will get sick of you and think that so annoy them. But when you stop and let them do whatever they want, they will think you’re a drama and acting victim. I better be a bad thing in their mind but I’m good for being my own way.
2025-09-23 20:44:12
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callmepumuckl :
My opinion is that both friendships and relationships require effort. No effort means no commitment, no energy eventually, it leads to loss. There needs to be healthy giving and healthy taking. At the same time, focusing on yourself and taking time for yourself can signal that the people in your life aren’t that important, and of course, they may drift away. I give my best friend the time he needs for himself, and I respect it. It was hard at first, but now I can cope with it. I give him space, but I don’t cling to him. If he leaves, he leaves if he stays, he stays. Either way, I continue with my life. In a relationship, it’s much harder because we want to grow with the person while also growing for ourselves. It requires a good balance between spending time with friends and taking time for yourself.
2025-09-24 02:33:29
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user4576795992052 :
💯 it’s hard to accept it but it’s the only way to evolve and grow I think? I love my friend but we are on different paths and don’t share the same values anymore. But I don’t feel bad about it 🤷♀
2025-09-22 20:28:26
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ChihuahuaBoys :
You forgot family…
2025-09-23 07:39:01
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Zireael :
It cost me all of my relationships lol (besides close family)
2025-09-23 23:55:07
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🐵Soph🐵 :
100% agree
2025-09-22 23:51:25
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🎈 :
Found my comforting zone. ❤
2025-09-23 21:53:15
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Raniim 🧚🏼♀️ :
how can i heal?
2025-09-23 19:19:01
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thegoldensara :
Don’t be afraid to lose people in the journey of gaining yourself. ✔
2025-09-23 04:12:46
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TimelessThoughts :
Just like a caterpillar cocoons and transforms into a butterfly, leaving behind the other caterpillars, you sometimes go through a period of growth and change both yourself and who you associate with. Nature moves, adapts and transforms, just like you.
2025-09-23 09:50:39
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CJScarlett :
But how can I heal my heart I need to know. I’m ok losing them but I’m losing myself and I need me back
2025-09-23 01:57:14
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ona :
i need to hear this today, thank you ❤
2025-09-24 19:11:17
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AMID music ♡ :
that’s actually true
2025-09-23 18:19:53
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Jose@jose8 :
ok! i want you!
2025-10-01 02:59:12
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TrustinGod :
💯 Facts… beautiful… well said
2025-09-23 21:42:48
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Ayaat of Love :
Lost husband lost family lost friends
2025-09-23 12:36:50
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user80055071962911 :
absolutely right 😘
2025-09-26 14:50:06
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Faluhy :
thanks for u
2025-09-23 11:17:07
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Tin :
I've distanced myself from former close friends on social media, recognizing we've grown apart and are no longer aligned in the same way. I removed them from my socials yesterday; after I did that, I felt relief instead of regret. So I think it was the right decision for me. I love them but things are different now.
2025-09-24 00:15:41
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Sienna :
this is so real, love it
2025-09-23 20:13:54
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caitbaee :
It’s hard to accept this . But your right ✨
2025-09-25 06:21:38
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. :
ok but what if its my mom…
2025-09-24 17:22:42
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