Remodeled Love
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Thursday 25 September 2025 00:01:24 GMT
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🌻Call me Pau🌻 :
I love the "want to". I know poly people already understand the importance of community, so "want to" is more on volition rather than "does this benefit me?", which I think is what it would turn into for some people outside of tight and aware communities. Idk if I made sense haha
2025-09-25 08:21:24
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dj :
OMG, YESYEYES!!! And take this outside of poly! But YES!!!
2025-09-25 01:53:45
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Tom Foolery :
Ask for what you want but sometime there are consequences for unreasonable asks.
2025-10-15 01:07:23
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kpete638 :
yes! for years I've been communicating willing vs want to, but the able to filter is weak. I need to work on that. Also, thank you for empowering people to ask for things that may even feel uncomfortable to ask for - sometimes I am shocked at how much people are willing and even want to do for me or with me.
2025-10-11 20:17:59
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dopamine_sea :
Yup, to me, the work is more on defining your 'willing and want to' filter and communicating that with partners that can hear it. This allows you to better be secure on the asking end as well. And on the other end, being able to accept the answer and not in some way manipulate the other to get what you want/need. There's lots to unlearn from how our patriarchal society has taught us.
2025-09-25 09:23:34
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Tatiana 🏳️🌈🍋 :
What I’m hearing is I need to implement the willing and able for myself 😳😅
2025-09-25 00:12:34
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jacesout :
I love literally asking folks if they have both the willingness and ability to do things!! 💕
2025-09-25 20:58:01
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X-tine :
I love this! And I think it’s so subjective. When it comes to sex and intimacy we should definitely include the “want to” filter for pleasure and consent driven fun. But when it comes to being a villager, sometimes being willing to do things you don’t want to is part of how you build and sustain community
2025-09-25 00:21:43
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