Be careful. Avoidant attachment should not be normalize. you might not even realize you could cause a trauma. Heal yourself before you entertain. Hindi mo sya free psych to understand you
2025-09-26 03:44:46
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ʜᴀɴᴄᴇ. :
"I can change an avoidant" an avoidant changed me
2025-09-25 09:42:18
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GRena :
These coments are NOT a safe space for avoidants 💔
2025-09-26 19:35:42
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Kalo :
Met an avoidant, gave me a LOT of reasons to leave, learned how to properly treat her, now I still love that avoidant. She's got thorns and I have hands that are willing to bleed for her
2025-09-27 19:45:33
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somethinglikethat016 :
Been trying to push away for almost 6 months now 😂
2025-09-25 04:55:42
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mary :
this is not a real standard, but it's a real problem you have to fix by yourself if you don't want to inflict anxious attachment
2025-09-25 22:23:17
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ren 💫 :
people always antagonize avoidants instead of trying to understand why they're like this and trying to find ways to support them or help them that will work for THEM. hopefully all avoidants find people who dont just villainize them
2025-11-11 17:36:14
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lalalala :
to those people who have an avoidant attachment, please never entertain someone when you are aware that you have an avoidant attachment; heal yourself first 'cause they're not your therapist.
2025-11-22 13:44:23
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NIKO :
avoidant attachment to others🙂 anxious attachment sa kanya🥲
2025-11-21 10:28:23
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ambotlagi :
girllll i'm scared he's still patient even i already pushed him away many times already but still he stays 😭😭😭😭
2025-09-27 00:03:12
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Billy :
Avoidents are so adorable! I have one and I adore her. I see every thing. the tiny posts she is posting to secretly say her feelings but to afraid. the heart a text that took so mucj energy to do. Basically her love letter. 😂🤭🤭 She just so stinking cute. Not my woman but she will be one day. No doubt about it. and no rush or pressure. 😁😁
2025-11-21 16:16:23
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Gryvure :
y’all think this a good thing? lol
2025-09-27 08:08:27
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tay :
avoidant attachment isn’t something to use as an excuse to treat someone wrong. everyone has trauma, but that isn’t an excuse.
2025-10-26 19:47:56
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Thomas Moock :
i tried fixing an avoidant now i’m turning into one bc of her😐
2025-11-17 18:21:33
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Kenji :
Avoid Attachment is not an accomplishment. Either fix it or distant yourself from good ones who have abandonment issues. Traumas causers do it and don't even realise it.
2025-11-09 17:39:42
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honest.aubs :
Why can’t BOTH partners give effort??
2025-11-17 14:59:33
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madi :
I literally just understood that this is literally me last night I wish I could apologize to my last situationship. All built from past experience
2025-11-23 18:13:24
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marissa gonzales791 :
I’m trying to understand my partner more any tips?
2025-11-09 04:38:13
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Ryffles :
Heal yourself before getting into a relationship unless you want your partner to have the most depressing relationship possible
2025-09-26 13:23:20
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philloooooo :
Understand and help fix*
2025-09-27 16:36:55
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(╹◡╹) :
Finally met someone who understands me even tho I was being avoidant. But we had to end it because we have different opinions on having kids. It hurting so bad rn.
2025-11-12 21:05:26
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️ :
having an avoidant attachment but not knowing a humane approach is draining for those of us who need to understand.
2025-11-14 13:23:31
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botha of wota :
i stayed for 1,5 year and he still pushing me everytime we get closer. i dont know what to do im so confused he keep giving me excuses to back away
2025-11-18 16:04:08
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zach :
ima take this tt as a learning opportunity
2025-11-07 18:30:51
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