@_msrii0: M, I apologize for not messaging you anymore. I couldn't bring myself to send you one last message because I don't know where I will find that strength. Writing long paragraphs to you will never change your mind, and yes, this is the right thing for us—to go our separate ways. I want to heal completely. I want to gradually unlearn you and stop loving you the way I do right now. Of course, I can't stop loving you as if nothing happened, but I know love takes many forms, including a good past and a good friendship. You were the best thing that ever happened to me and I would always be proud to say, I was able to love you as you were to me. Today, I have decided to choose myself. And choosing myself means accepting what it is and what it was. I am grateful for everything—love, care, and support. You were my everything for the past two years. Those were wonderful years. Now that we need to start a new life, I hope we both find happiness in the end. We might not be able to be together as much as we dreamed and planned, but at least we experienced a love that tried to withstand life's pressures and faith. Please know that wherever you are, I am still your biggest supporter. I will hold you in my heart forever and always—my best friend, my great lost love, my dear Merve. I wish us both the best and goodness in life. If ever the universe allows us to meet, I hope I see that beautiful smile of yours. May you never forget the love I once gave you, and may you carry the lessons we learned from each other. We will find each other again. After this life and the next life. Pinky promise✨ Be strong, stay safe, and take care. Live a happy and prosperous life Love, Rea nyenyenye #Love #feelings #thoughts #heartbreak #fyp

vanesa :

i believe if you love someone this much, you should fight for them.

musagicheru :

The caption just gave me what i needed to clear out the pain

VENLOVECATS :

you can never really unlove someone even after realizations, growth, maturity and even settlement there will be a piece of you that will care for them, recognize their face and remember their name for thats the very evidence that you love truly

It’s me Anne 💚 :

I told him everything about myself—my pain, my trauma. I told him I had just come out of a 7 year relationship and had been dealing with so much pain. He promised, assured me that if I gave him a chance, he would make sure I’d never go through the same pain again. I had built walls so high out of fear that if I let my guard down, I’d experience the same pain from my past. He climbed that wall, insisted on staying, love-bombed me, and promised never to hurt me. I let my guard down and accepted him, finally thinking that maybe he was the one. I thought he was being true, until I forced him to answer why his phone was off every night. I asked, but he never answered. He ghosted me for two days, even though I had apologized for asking. When he finally replied, he broke up with me, saying he couldn’t handle my energy and that I overwhelmed him. It hurt to see how cold, distant, and cruel he was in that moment. In just one single fight, he abandoned me, despite knowing that I have trauma. That’s when I realized that maybe he never loved me at all. The way he abandoned me just because I asked, it doesn’t lessen my worth. It shows exactly who he really is. It hurt so much that it activated all the trauma I thought I had already healed from. I thought he would help me; it turns out he left me broken, used, and shattered even more than my past. I wanted to say everything that hurt me, everything that was painful, but I knew it wouldn’t change anything. I wrote a very long message hoping it would be my goodbye, but instead, I saved it in my notes. I refused to let him have the satisfaction of knowing how much pain he caused me when he abandoned me, broke his promises, and discarded me like trash. I ended the conversation with my last message: “Don’t ever reach out again.” I walked away with my dignity and self-respect intact. I didn’t chase him, I didn’t beg, I just disappeared. No matter the pain, I know I genuinely loved him, and I didn’t ruin him. That’s not my loss. It’s been 15 days with no contact. He never reached out again, and so am I. Not sending my last message, and the fact that he never reached out, is already the closure I needed.

cyanne :

D4N🧩 :

you want to make me cry, right ?😭

George 6’5 Gracious👑 :

m ♱ :

so my ex never gave me closure, we were also tg for 2 years, and i cried reading this and ill take this as my closure thank u

S :

Wlw or mlw?

☠︎︎ :

the timing is crazy

AJ :

Why was September the month that we left our loved ones for good? Three years down the road..

Chudi K :

You can’t fight for someone that doesn’t want to be fought for. ❤

_molina_022 :

Your spark will come back only when your core beliefs change. Only YOU can ignite that spark within yourself…You gotta take action in order to heal yourself. If youre confused and dont know where to start, you can start by reading Healing isnt pretty(mira hartson), one of the most transoframtive guides available right now. You deserve to have peace 🕊

ciel :

wow this is so beautifully written

me. :

someone call an ambulance for me 🥹

pyoo :

leaving doesn't really mean unloving eh no? kasi that love for sure still lingers, even when you've completely detached.

Erwin :

Love is both the most wonderful and the most painful experience we can have. I love the caption, you really put your feelings 😭

mariaa :

i want to message him so bad but i cannot disrespect myself

𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔲𝔪𝔞 :

Why the caption + the M girl whyyyy

YepYepYepUhHuhUhHuh :

GO BACK, GIVE THEM A 2ND CHANCE. THERE IS ONLY ONE LIFE

Batman :

Only a mature person can say these thoughtful words..There's a quote that goes: "Like the Bordeaux grape, may we all get better with time". Thanks for sharing.

Waesy :

God had to fumble, because he knew you were ready to pour your soul into someone, while loosing yourself in the process.

M :

minie 🧸 :

i think most of us struggling with this now...i wish you find your happiness soon and you will be someone whose light bright the whole room 🩷

user8192n0r1 :

are we experiencing the same life? Word by word totally the same, just broke up with my 2year, dear R read the caption is for you🤍