@therapistinrecovery: People with anxiety (aka most of us) already spend too much time in our head trying to fix things. In fact, that’s a big part of the problem. So the solution isn’t just a bunch more analyzing or processing (there is some of this that’s important yes). Equally (or more) important is being present in our actions. Actions that portray our values like taking care of our basic needs all while making room for our feelings. Basically we have to act our way into right thinking not the other way around. #mentalhealthtips #anxietyrelief #acceptanceandcommitmenttherapy #therapistsontiktok #anxietytok

Rachael DeKoning, LCMFT, LAC
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sarah.reeps
sarah.reeps :
Love this! How might we approach this with someone stuck in the loop of overthinking and refusing to engage in anything else (food, sleep, breathing, etc)?
2025-09-26 09:57:34
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tonyosso99
Tonyosso99 :
I haven’t met anyone with any kind of anxiety disorder who doesn’t spend a majority of the day problem solving and trying to think their way out of overthinking. Our society in general has over complicated just about everything. Our brains weren’t meant to be on go 24/7 yet here we are. There’s beauty and peace in simplicity.
2025-09-26 17:11:32
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shauncollett4
Shaun C. :
The mind is a terrible thing to use😂
2025-09-27 19:15:11
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desertplaces
alana :
Very insightful. Thanks for sharing! I bet you’re an amazing therapist.
2025-09-26 00:53:21
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user46295803719
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as a chronic overthinker who finally started focusing on basic health needs and integrating nervous system/somatic work and safety, YES 💯 it’s so easy to overlook these things
2025-09-28 18:25:48
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angietranchillakn
angietranchillakn :
Thank you for this! I suffer from anxiety and catastrophizing. I adore my therapist but there is so much focus on where this comes from. I have no clue! No deep seaded trauma. I put so much pressure on myself to figure that out that it overcomplicate things.
2025-09-26 12:51:59
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give.people.grace
give people grace ♡ :
do u think this is relevant for OCD as well?
2025-09-27 04:23:57
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ericdoesntexistence
ericdoesntexistence :
Yes!! All my clients expressed apprehension to return to therapy after previous “failed attempts” with CBT and DBT. I use a somatic approach and it works wonders.
2025-09-26 12:00:44
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mlaformat158
Marissa :
I have a problem with napping and just wanting to sleep more. Like I’ll go to bed at 8, sleep in or snooze. Take another nap later
2025-09-26 23:09:01
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tamikaimani
tamikaimani :
As an early intervention child Mental Health Practitioner- THANK YOU ☺️🥳
2025-09-29 07:52:48
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grumpylion5
Grumpylion :
I have agoraphobia, trapped and fire with no way out. I had it occur one time and survived. Medicine has helped the most, the other thing is to accept it, but #1 is to be aware of your thoughts and where they are starting to go and stop building the story. Just stop and think of something you enjoy doing and focus on that instead. My dreams suck though and that is when I can’t stop, but I’ve learned to let it go in morning, that it was just a dream. Keep trying and living and knowing there is help!!!!!!! Took me years to learn this.
2025-09-28 04:29:49
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stitusbruiser
Stitus78 :
I agree💯 with you!
2025-09-28 00:40:45
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peachib86luv
peachiB86Luv :
How do you work on acceptance?
2025-09-26 17:32:39
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kayyheart_
k :
When I learned all this in my IOP for perinatal OCD it changed my life!!!!!!!
2025-09-26 01:58:37
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frankietheg
Frankie :
Great advice!!!! While talk therapy has been great to understand myself better, doing IFS has gotten me more into my body and feelings.
2025-09-28 03:48:31
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brittanyprice96
Brittany Price :
I feel attacked, but also ... this is amazing advice 🥲🥹 I didn't realize how bad I over analyze things and that it could be the reason why I'm not progressing in therapy! thank you for sharing this 💕
2025-09-26 16:54:08
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stina16xo
Christina :
Do you also specialize in panic attacks/disorder caused by anxiety?
2025-09-29 20:12:02
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nonyabizznez
NonyaBizznez :
Very helpful indeed. Thank you.
2025-09-26 08:20:35
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user28736368755
User2827362788 :
THANK YOU! Perfect timing
2025-09-27 00:03:09
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adzaab
soup :
Hm okay I get that. The “stop the bleeding” analogy was eye opening
2025-09-26 19:16:54
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tamponrodeo
AuntieLaLa :
Amazing
2025-09-26 06:34:27
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blue_marigold
Blue Marigold :
I agree.
2025-09-27 17:40:06
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hunor_szabo_
Hunor. :
I just started feeling my feelings with no judgement and they just flow through me. Now they are weak enough to not terrorize me
2025-09-28 14:41:11
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jennifer_fiocchi
Jennifer Fiocchi :
Thank you
2025-09-26 14:12:27
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jcmakesmusic
Jesse 😁 :
Thank you for posting this 🙏🏽
2025-09-28 07:45:38
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