@jenbutlersays: Relationships are a series of ebbs and flows. There are times when you’re super close. Other times when you’re a little more distant. But the through line is maintaining love and commitment, even when tired or distant or cranky or gassy. There’s something very retroactively healing about being loved that consistently by another person. And I only hope I can love him as well as he loves me. #consciousrelationships #attachmentstyles #codependencyrecovery
It took a divorce and WAY too many years apart for me to realize this. I came back to the EXACT same man.. it’s MY behavior that’s changed! Almost 30 years.
2025-09-27 00:33:20
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Vitovixa :
Hey, been following you for a while (since your discourses to aliens about particular human peculiarities). I finally picked up your book, which I’m finding very relatable. I appreciate this video in particular because it just speaks truth, which is no more or less than being internally honest. Thank you for sharing yourself.
2025-10-05 03:17:37
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Krissy :
Get outta my psyche 🙈
2025-10-02 00:50:39
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Maui.mana :
This is SO true… thanks for sharing 🥺💕💜
2025-09-26 23:48:58
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Lisa :
This 🙈🙈🙈
2025-09-26 07:59:42
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NNN4708 :
Oooof. I’ve done what you’re doing for 40 years and it never got better. I just found out he’s avoidant attached & it explains EVERYTHING. Be careful. I wouldn’t want my sorrow & heartbeat for anyone. 😢
2025-09-28 04:28:41
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One Cat 🐈⬛ 4 Peace :
I’m a volunteer for big brothers big sisters and this is good advice for how I feel when my little is cranky
2025-09-27 13:23:48
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