@feralrockdove: Go follow White Woman Whisperer. I learn so much from her. Video description: I am sitting on the floor and talking to the camera. The room is lit by a window behind me. A potted plant and the corner of a painting are in view. The painting depicts a pile of green rectangular shapes. I am a middle aged white wiman with short brown hair and glasses. I have dark eyes and long thin hands. I am wearing a dark gray hoodie with the hood up and gray sweatpants #disability #chatting #community
this is a behavior i recognize in myself too. i appreciate the reminder to be vigilant about it
2025-09-27 03:31:05
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Bits n Bytes :
Some people can find that they are paying attention to the clouds, and not to their surroundings, and can be prone to tripping those around them. And some people can be more prone to getting tripped. And it’s your own responsibility to become aware of the situations where you tend to focus on the clouds, and where you need to educate yourself on how to stop from (accidentally) tripping those around you. And then when you’re confronted by someone who has injured knees and palms, it’s not the time or place to take the attention away from them to tell them that you were unaware that your actions were about to trip them. They’ve been tripped, they’re on the floor injured. That’s the part that matters.
2025-11-01 18:57:46
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BigStuffins :
I knew i prefered mens' responses to stuff, but didnt really know why except that womens responses require more emotions, and im already drained 24/7. U put into words
2025-09-28 04:30:29
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Carson :
This is such a brilliant analysis and such a good example of not only pointing out. I have been thinking a lot about this too and really appreciate hearing you think through it out loud
2025-10-02 20:36:16
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justHere :
I need to make a video like this but I don't have my words for my experience or this yet. in the meantime I am just pulling my hair out in frustration
2025-09-26 15:00:54
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SoulSightArtistry :
Just thanks you for this. Gave me a lot to think about
2025-09-29 07:42:11
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Violet Rae 😷 :
hey! I had an elder in my community share this with me to read and it changed so much for me. please check it out, I promise it is related!💐
2025-09-29 19:04:50
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Auroravenus01 :
Thank you for sharing ♥
2025-09-29 03:03:55
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Hil :
I have been thinking about this too, and losing friends because of this. I am also a disabled WW and it feels like I didn't fix myself quickly enough or gracefully enough or according to the wishes of some WW friends who are 1) busy "saving" other people, or 2) withdrawing bc they're scrambling to "fix" themselves before offering witness and community, or 3) just barricading themselves inside whatever comfort they've amassed bc shit is not fixable.
I have been struggling with articulation of the problem so now I want to go find your original video.... is it still up?
2025-09-27 18:17:11
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Nikki 🌸💙 :
😁😁😁
2025-10-06 06:22:57
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ya boi alex :
👀
2025-09-30 14:40:13
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Meche :
🥰
2025-09-29 10:00:29
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Kiana :
I can see what you're saying. I saw my mom even do this to herself after she got ALS. Can't speak for everyone but for her it stemmed from a lifetime of culturally prescribed self abandonment. You had to figure out what was "wrong" and fix it or no one will like you, nothing could just...be a part of you that people accommodate because it's human. I think you have a point to saying it's gendered. Of course it is, how we are socialized in society is gendered and there's not any way around that right now. It's like some puritanical mandate on the female gender that perfection is not only possible, but achievable and their responsibility.
2025-09-27 15:07:57
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Caroline🇨🇦 :
having MS this has been my experience as well. I prefer the mens,that's ruff over have you tried doing this or that. this also makes me look at myself and the times I have been the white woman fixer. makes me think about the big five personality traits and perhaps white women share in some of them.
2025-09-26 15:28:12
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willapen 🍉 :
lol, I love the way you think.
2025-09-28 09:16:31
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Photon 01♾️ :
WW hackles 😂
2025-10-01 20:46:05
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Passion they/them :
men do really hit you with the "thats rough buddy"
2025-09-29 14:52:54
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