@nikadiwa: I used to hate long wait times until I reframed my thinking to this. If you’ve ever had to be the mama with an unforeseen long appointment, I’m sending you all the love and hugs. ❤️‍🩹 #obgyn #pregnancy

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bayssmae
bayssmae :
I was a little annoyed about going to the later term appointments sitting down for 5 mins and walking out until I realized what a privilege it was to be able to have a 5 minute appointment
2025-09-28 23:26:47
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lillithgibson
Lillith Gibson251 :
Thank you, it’s that feeling when you do experience a loss and have to walk back out there.
2025-09-27 18:42:33
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shortlysh
shortlysh :
Yep. I opened the door to check if someone was coming then I heard a girl crying and I quietly sat in the room. Only to be crying 30 mins later.
2025-09-28 03:02:13
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chey.babygirl
Cheyenne Faircloth :
I just had my 2nd miscarriage this year on sep 22🥺😭
2025-09-28 12:38:18
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mrspx3
Amanda P. :
I absolutely love the way you framed this💜
2025-09-27 21:59:54
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zestycee
ZestyCeeVan :
I remember the day I did my last monthly check with my Obgun and I waited a while, alone. Saw my Obgyn and he had tears in his eyes. I cried immediately and we sat in silence. No one knows the unexpected pain or sudden surprises. We just need to be grateful for the journey. Embrace every moment.
2025-09-27 19:52:27
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delaneyball1
Delaney Ball :
I never looked at it that way before! I will never complain again
2025-09-27 23:31:37
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zotiya04
Z :
I went into the ER for having contractions, the girl in the room next to me was screaming, crying "my baby is gone" "my baby is dead" over and over, as someone who has lost babies (and my mom who was in the room next to me) we cried for her, you never want that for another mother
2025-09-28 21:24:04
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mommylovesherkidsalways
mommylovesherkidsalways :
From someone that has been there, thank you🥰
2025-09-27 18:55:45
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baddiebr33
baddiebr33 :
This really works for all Dr offices. I worked at an urology office. And people would be so mad about us running behind. But we would have to do surprise tests due to concerns of cancer. Then we would have to break the bad news. Schedule surgeries that day. An appt that was meant to be a 10-15 minute convo. But if it was you, you would want us to act promptly. You can’t have it both ways 🤷
2025-09-29 16:35:47
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tidyupper
TidyUpper :
I wish they had a different waiting room for mamas who have had a loss. It’s so sad going thru something like that and having to wait in a room full of expecting mothers.
2025-09-27 20:35:03
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lindamcbride0
Linda McBride :
Right on sister - we need more kindness in this world ❤
2025-09-27 21:23:12
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maya_hocking
Maya :
It was me and then it was me waiting everyone deserves kindness 🥰
2025-09-29 02:58:12
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lexirosee22
Lexilouu :
Or your OB got called into an emergency C-section. Happened more than once🤣 Still worth the almost two hour wait tho lol
2025-09-30 00:03:39
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iherdcatsforaliving
YoungatheartinOR :
What a lovely way to look at it. And takes the pressure off you. Unless you have to tinkle. 😂😂😂
2025-09-28 20:22:12
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louisac___
Louisa :
Love this, from a midwife xox
2025-09-27 23:52:50
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ashmarie_travelwithme
ash :
I love this! after a miscarriage last year. I'm 10 weeks pregnant and continuing to pray everyday. along with the mothers around me waiting
2025-09-30 00:32:25
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rebecca_oh
Oh_Rebecca! 📚🪴 :
As someone last year that loss three babies . Thank you . You have no idea the pain walking out of that apt and seeing all the happy pregant people there is .
2025-09-29 11:51:11
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blurskiiis
Blair Mcdermott :
The same way I saw it I never cared to wait at any doctor office the person before me could be fighting for their life
2025-09-28 01:35:56
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itscharlene23
Charlene Sanchez :
Thank you for this. This past March, I was that mama receiving that bad news. All of us who have been there appreciate this so much. ❤️Congratulations on your growing family!
2025-09-28 02:31:48
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joleanhardest
jolean :
i love u and they way you see things it changes my perspective
2025-10-08 13:04:58
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mercedesmiller16
Mercedes Miller :
I was once the distraught person taking up the doctors time so I always try to remember that someone may be getting life changing news as I wait.
2025-09-29 03:44:34
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kc90704
KC🌸 :
I love you so much for this!…I work in primary care, and unfortunately we also have to deliver hard news 🗞️and I know it’s frustrating having to wait a long time for your appt…but we all need to remember grace.. and if it was you, getting a difficult diagnosis..you would want and need all the time for any questions or concerns you have..and that’s why things get backed up…
2025-10-05 01:34:43
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