@shini.mk: a vulnerable one today, genuinely thought i got past this mental block but it seems not #representation #browngirl #sari #confidence #insecurity
dont worry girl, your out there representing us!! u got thisssss be yourslefff
2025-09-27 20:26:10
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𝓷 💗 :
Girl the west is capitalizing off of our attires, you might as well just put yourself in what they desire most
2025-09-27 20:40:23
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ddolie :
had this dilemma for graduation...brought a back up dress and tbh this dilemma got to me and i wore the dress...it happens so pls don't feel pressured to 😔 just having you there is enough rep for us girlies
2025-11-15 07:32:10
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Hawkeye_218 :
you're going to a place where everyone is big and extravagant, you shouldn't make yourself small and invisible at an event like that. you're gorgeous, and your heritage is amazing, you shouldn't dim your shine just because of nerves. you'll go and see that the overthinking is just that, overthinking, and I feel like you'd end up regretting not wearing it just because you've been imagining it for so long!
2025-09-27 20:32:12
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mariah :
Take the backup dress! As an anxious girl myself, having the backup there will only make you feel more confident when choosing to wear your original outfit. Then your mind won’t be racing thinking about the “what ifs” of it all
2025-09-27 21:19:30
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alexis :
i'm sorry that you feel that way😢 but you will look stunning, girl. not "othered" but shining
2025-09-27 20:23:33
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BlackIceBeauty :
take both and wear what you want when the time comes. you're under no obligation either way. wear what makes you comfortable and confident.
2025-09-27 21:24:21
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Cindy🌼 :
You will look absolutely breathtaking ✨♥
2025-09-27 20:25:10
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ananya :
You wearing a bindi was a big inspo for me to start ❤️❤️if you’ll feel confident DO IT!! But don’t push it if it doesn’t feel right!!
2025-09-27 21:17:29
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Kayleigh Vee :
Girl! Wear it! We need the representation. The very first time I saw an Indian woman wear something traditional on a global red carpet, I nearly cried!
2025-09-30 17:54:10
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charis :
if i’m not mistaken, you said that standing out is a muscle to be exercised and i truly believe you haven’t been exercising it for nothing! ❤
2025-09-28 00:00:17
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lylogoesoutdoors 🌳🏔️🌊 :
please 👏🏻 wear 👏🏻 the 👏🏻sari
2025-09-27 23:21:48
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Amy :
IMO pack the back up; it doesn't hurt to be prepared. BUT I think a sari would look stunning and is a real moment to stand out in a beautiful way. If people are going to be looking anyway then give them a show of culture and grace❤️You got this and you deserve to take up space.
2025-09-27 21:11:59
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🌺sahebaxoxo🌺 :
Your feelings are incredibly valid and I can relate so much it hurts😭 it’s honestly inspiring you were able to put words to it and share it here online…no matter what you decide to wear, just know that there are other brown girls out here cheering you on and your amazing accomplishment of being invited for Paris Fashion Week! You’re going to slay either way, I say it do it with full Shini flair😉♥
2025-09-29 19:10:54
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Sunny Ray 🌞 :
Have you ever mixed your sari with western wear? I’ve seen some really cool mixed outfits that look really chic but still honor your culture
2025-09-28 00:56:48
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gemma :
you're going to look so beautiful in it 😍
2025-09-27 20:27:02
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Isabel Staton :
It’s a process letting go of past trauma. Give yourself grace. You’re still growing.
2025-09-27 21:35:11
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Abygayl 🍉 :
just think your inner child needs that representation, your younger self needs to see you representing your culture so beautifully 🖤
2025-09-27 20:40:20
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Hanananah :
oh Shini, you deserve to be your authentic self and wear what you want to wear! for your anxiety's sake, if you need the backup, bring it! but I think you'll look beautiful in the sari, especially when the whole look comes together!!
2025-09-27 20:33:24
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onemillionthings :
pack the backup! don't put any pressure on yourself to wear or not wear the sari, but if you have it with you it makes it easier to make a game time decision based on how you're feeling on the day
2025-09-28 00:11:01
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Soph🧡💚💙 :
Girly you will look absolutely stunning!! I can get what you're saying about why you're anxious but honestly I think you should pack it and wear it!
2025-09-27 20:26:09
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traceydey :
Your so lovely and beautiful.
2025-09-28 18:12:48
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HChohan :
I’m so glad you did it girl for all the other little brown girls 🥰🥰
2025-10-07 11:34:09
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Katy :
Please don't "conform" - you are an inspiration to so many so please celebrate your culture, your history and walk proudly!!
2025-09-27 22:41:58
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Zeal :
If this helps at all: imagine going to a big event and being able to wear a piece that belongs to your mum. Put the culture and the fear of being othered aside for a moment - by wearing your mum's sari, you aren't just representing your culture, but celebrating and showing your love and admiration for your mother 💖. If this were me, I'd find it grounding to have a piece of my mum's clothing with me 💖
2025-09-28 11:24:15
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