@anthony.hester: Being the “little husband” to your mom is one of the most damaging forms of emotional parentification. Instead of being allowed to be a child, you were forced into the role of caretaker, confidant, and emotional partner. This toxic family dynamic shows up in households with emotionally immature parents, narcissistic mothers, or codependent parenting. It creates deep trauma wounds that affect adult children of dysfunctional families long after childhood is over. If you grew up feeling like your mother’s partner instead of her child, that was not love, it was emotional abuse. Healing from parentification, enmeshment, and role reversal is possible, and you are not alone in this journey. This content is for cycle breakers, black sheep, and survivors who are ready to reclaim their childhood, set boundaries, and finally put down the weight they should have never carried. #emotionallyimmatureparents #cyclebreakers #toxicfamily #childhoodtrauma #parentification

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kpiggy1212
kimora🇰🇪 :
Finally a son admitting this!
2025-09-30 18:30:07
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kalizyahutchinson
Kalimom :
I was my mom’s husband too lol.
2025-09-30 21:20:41
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lisamariev111
lisamariev111 :
Good for you. Wishing u the best !!!!🤗
2025-10-04 20:59:29
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lauraxsanchez12
Laura Sanchez :
emotionally immature parents are exhausting 😩
2025-10-01 13:26:41
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ash111103
Maryan :
In Africa it’s a privilege to support your parents and look out for them, I just don’t understand how can someone have no contact with their parents for yelling at them. You even mentioned she was going through Mental Health issues.
2025-10-01 08:14:16
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lilbabylinda_
LIN LIN🎀 💄 :
Hold on this is my first time hearing the other POV:
2025-10-01 01:12:30
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pasitosauvecito
Suavecito papasito :
The timing of this video tho thanks for sharing your story
2025-10-04 20:51:14
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marylangone2
Mary Langone :
So sorry. No contact is a good choice for you
2025-09-30 14:31:16
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brittanyogus
Brittany Ogus :
Me but I’m the daughter lol
2025-10-04 21:59:48
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lngbeechoakldr
Jasmine Vera :
MEN NEED TO SPEAK UP MORE !!!!!!!
2025-10-01 21:58:59
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user5430081921178
user5430081921178 :
People puting Africa as example: In Africa you are brainwashed since you are kids to believe that you are the saviors of the house, believing that you “have” to take care of your parents or even family since an early age, migrate, send money back home and make you feel like a bad son/daughter for not doing it but in reality the weight of the responsibilities, invalidation of your feelings, and all the rest that comes with it is making nothing but create traumas and making your life miserable as you constantly live for others AND reproducing this behavior with your own children, so basically continuing the generational curse. So Africa is not the best example.
2025-10-02 22:20:03
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genxtechdad
GenXTechDad :
This was my life. Wow.
2025-10-04 17:27:30
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yarii13130
Yarii19 :
You are seriously the first man I’ve ever seen admit this and not buy in to it
2025-09-30 19:40:43
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booksbydiane
BooksbyDiane :
I’m so sorry you went through this. I went through very similar & went no contact with my parents a few years ago. Best decision. People who grew up with supportive parents judge & don’t understand us. Bc they will never know what it’s like to have had our life. I’m so glad you’re sharing your story for the people who want to get out, but can’t. 💗
2025-10-04 19:41:23
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thefinisher1222
Pierre Hyppolite :
The psychological term for that is MATERNAL ENMESHMENT. They destroy their children.
2025-10-01 13:24:26
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tyll.888
tyll.888 :
Also no contact with my parents, it’s been a year. Best decision of my life.
2025-10-04 17:36:28
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draiuni9933
draiuni9933 :
I see you and understand 💯 ❤️‍🩹
2025-10-04 18:14:37
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staceylynn205
Shaquan :
What about older children? Parents thinking you’re their therapist?
2025-09-30 18:28:03
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claire_the_vagilante
claire_the_vagilante :
I was the parentified daughter which makes being an actual mother, exhausting. I’ve been doing it my entire life already
2025-10-04 17:59:38
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jaxxxsuxs
jax :
so exhausting💔🥹iwas a parent since the age of 11
2025-10-04 21:14:05
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georgia.kendall.d
Georgia Kendall Doherty :
Im 31 years old my mom lives with me and fully expects me to support her forever. Seriously considering going no contact soon
2025-09-30 20:01:59
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_leensey_
Leensey :
so what does that make me? her lesbian lover? 🤣🤣…. 😾
2025-10-02 09:43:13
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afro_buddha
Afro_buddha :
my mother did it to her daughters . also went no contact
2025-09-30 19:44:35
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itssabahbanomalik
Sabah Bano Malik :
Reposting so maybe Pakistani men see this and 💡
2025-10-02 05:35:21
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