@melrobbins: Tell me if this sounds familiar… You make a decision for yourself. You’re feeling good about it. And then the SECOND someone else suggests otherwise… You cave. Harvard’s Dr. Todd Rose, says that’s not weakness. That’s biology. Your brain is wired to crave belonging. So when someone asks if you want a glass of wine even when you promised yourself you weren’t going to drink - your reflex is to say yes. BUT when you stick to your decision - you give other people permission to do the same. This conversation will change how you see the world, and your place in it. Listen now! 🎧 “This One Research Study Will Change How You Think About Your Entire Life.” Watch the full episode now on YouTube - search ‘The Mel Robbins Podcast Dr. Todd Rose’ #melrobbins #melrobbinspodcast #belonging #sayingyes

Mel Robbins
Mel Robbins
Open In TikTok:
Region: US
Tuesday 30 September 2025 15:45:46 GMT
202441
6728
134
554

Music

Download

Comments

purplejayne1
jayne miller605 :
22 years sober
2025-10-05 10:28:51
1
san.dee.o
🎄🎅🏼🤶🏻 SanDee ❄️☃️🎄 :
Or maybe you just wanted a glass of wine with your friend. Don’t beat yourself up Mel!
2025-10-01 06:01:06
9
attracta.yoga
Attracta || Yoga & Wellness :
I get this
2025-11-17 18:02:30
0
bligidablam
Bligidablam :
it's called having a rubber arm
2025-10-01 13:51:45
0
wjz6317
WJZ63 :
Day 28 sober
2025-09-30 16:20:07
105
rachinsb1
Rach :
It feels awkward for a second, then you feel empowered when you say no… it’s such a great feeling.
2025-10-01 01:47:39
5
user7814422333225
Ayman Anwar546 :
I love you ❤️🙏. Let them ❤️❤️❤
2025-10-01 23:02:47
1
tammymusic77
Tammy Lawrence :
Oh my friends totally give me crap when I say I’m not drinking right now
2025-09-30 22:23:46
0
ginarunfit
GinaRunFit | CPT Fitness coach :
I said no tonight. I felt judged a little. Out of place. But I’m proud that I stuck to my word to not drink.
2025-10-01 01:40:04
2
leah.sullivan25
Leah Sullivan :
OMG Mel, please help me. I want to do sober October the tears in my eyes right now. I have my wine and I’m thinking this is my last day. I don’t know. I want to get one of your books cause I want to come home 5 o’clock And do something different. I’ve read the reviews. Please tell me which book do you recommend because I like you, I like your simplicity I like you speak from the heart. Tomorrow I want to do something different. You’re a good boy Barney did you eat all your food lol I kept that I walked over to get my glasses to read this that is my dog 😂
2025-09-30 22:42:01
4
thedailykale
The Daily Kale :
Love this! It’s so true. We can be the positive example 💛 who knows what that might make others do for the better 🙏
2025-10-01 19:37:32
0
lvmcgee
MamaOT :
Day 290. Best decision ever to quit
2025-10-03 04:17:14
0
msceacea
MsCeaCea :
Habit. I made that error last week. Reboot. It’s for special occasions only.
2025-10-01 05:15:25
0
happyhippiemomma1111
Renee :
True
2025-10-01 02:10:36
1
bethlorell
Beth Lorell :
This kind of situation is so hard…saying no to something we kind of want and kind of don’t, and the awkwardness of turning someone down. Practicing in low-stakes moments makes it easier.
2025-09-30 20:50:31
14
dawnmccord2
Dawny :
When I say no, I get weird vibes from the people I’m with 🙄
2025-09-30 16:35:40
89
ellonabarker
Elle B :
After not drinking around the 2 - 3 weeks mark … the benefits in terms of energy, sleep, productivity and feeling good much is so much easier to say no ✨Stop with the exceptions unless it’s to toast your best friend getting married or a big life moment 🙌
2025-10-01 06:12:18
0
fakhar.fareed11
SUPREME HERO HANNAN :
I really the book book of let them this book is very serious book
2025-10-02 06:22:48
0
kimberlybarrettryan
Kimberly Barrett Rya :
I think bars should offer hemp drinks or cbd/ thc beverage alternatives
2025-09-30 18:50:52
1
purplejayne1
jayne miller605 :
I don't need to explain to anyone why I'm not drinking
2025-10-05 10:29:51
2
cher_71
Cher🇨🇦 :
I’m like that with food too. I go out saying I’m going to make a healthy choice, but then don’t want to make my dinner mate feel bad for their choice so I get the fries and whatever…. Frustrating
2025-09-30 19:54:19
14
felistomerco
Mercedes S545 :
its a rewired mindset. And when you stop completely, those after work dinners have only one option. like all other dinners. Acceptions to the plan are harder to manage when there are two competing plans
2025-10-01 16:31:19
0
ana0202boop13
Ana G 13 :
Self discipline!!
2025-10-01 15:20:13
0
jmjjp8
JJPjjp :
People have been drinking since the beginning of time. I don’t think it has health benefits but lately, people are talking about it like it was murdering people for centuries. People drank way more in the past than now.
2025-10-01 18:54:33
0
To see more videos from user @melrobbins, please go to the Tikwm homepage.

Other Videos


About