@desb___: I’M STILL A GREAT MOM!!! 🤏🏼🤏🏼 It’s me Des.. with your reminder.. CHOOSE YOU. I’m a mom of three that’s FINALLY found the balance of caring for my kids without forgetting to care for me. Because here’s the thing.. I can’t be the best mom if I’m running on E. And I refuse to believe I have to choose between being a present, loving parent and a woman who feels good in her own skin. I’m the mom friend who: • knows the mental load is so real • gets overstimulated during school drop off • knows that everyone’s 24 hours truly looks different … but still puts herself on the list, every single day in some way. Choosing me first doesn’t make me less of a mom. It makes me a BETTER one. I’m proud of the way I pour into my kids.. and I’m proud of the way I pour into myself too. You deserve that balance. You deserve softness. You deserve joy for YOU, not just for your family. It’s not selfish. It’s survival. How will you take care of yourself in October? If you’re looking for a mom friend who keeps it real, swears a little, enjoys a drunk cig every 10 years, and will always cheer you on… you’re in the right place. 🥹💅🏼 ILYLAS. (ps: workouts + mom-safe movement are in my profile 🔗) #momlifeunfiltered #momvlog #postpartumcoach #michiganmom #momofthree