@anxiouslyalej: Subtle behaviors that lose respect in relationships⬇️ 🔹 Seeking Constant Reassurance When you ask, “Do you still love me? Are we okay?” you hand over the role of validator. Instead of being seen as confident, you start being seen as dependent. Respect erodes when you stop trusting your own worth. 🔹 Talking Too Much About Commitment Early Every conversation turning into “Where is this going?” signals that your need to be chosen outweighs your selectivity. It feels like pressure, not clarity. And human psychology? We resist what feels forced. 🔹 Abandoning Your Life The fastest way to lose respect is dropping your routines, your friendships, your goals for a man. You call it “prioritizing him.” He sees it as instability. What’s magnetic is the woman who keeps her life intact and lets love add to it. Respect grows when you hold your own frame. When you show that you trust yourself, don’t need to be chased into commitment, and won’t abandon your life for someone else. The most attractive women don’t sacrifice their identity for a relationship—they protect it. And that’s what commands long-term respect. Save this reel as a reminder: attraction isn’t just about chemistry—it’s about discipline, self-respect, and the standards you enforce. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #blackcatenergy #datingforwomen #relationships
Alejandra Maria
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Friday 03 October 2025 20:07:08 GMT
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Tat :
If you have to ask, you're not being loved properly.
2025-10-04 21:26:12
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Clare Essi :
Taking notes 📒.
2025-10-03 20:19:35
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Motunrayo ✞ 🇳🇬 :
The first one is true 😭😭 it is quite annoying
2025-10-04 14:27:52
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Adriana :
I am sure of myself, just not sure of himself.
2025-10-03 21:42:49
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Hallana :
No.2 can be a real brain-musher ;) Be careful sisters, if you don’t have boundaries around a timeline and limits on waiting for that boi to “feel ready”, you might slip the slippery slope of enabling and becoming his placeholder. Stay safe & assertive out there 💚
2025-10-04 10:19:18
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Mack, Esq. :
Insecurity too.
2025-10-04 21:41:30
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Vicky :
1. it depends. there are people who don't mind to reassure and to give what you need in a relationship. ofc if it's not obsessive behavior where you can't live without constant attention. 2. hard disagree. you end up wasting your time and energy on someone who was never interested. just talk as friends, meet up and don't make "physical" things until being in committed relationship. be straightforward about it and about what you're looking for. never had an issue, plenty of men who love that and value it. 3. agree but sometimes life happens in serious and long term relationships where one of you might need to make a sacrifice and in other time - the other person. and it's ok as long as you explain to them and they understand and value your sacrifice or you theirs.. e.g. long distance relationship where one of you will definitely need to move. 4. why are we listening to relationship advices from a person who is probably not married/struggling herself
2025-10-07 00:20:10
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Dafne. :
As a woman, I’ve lost respect for some of my friends in the past for those exact reasons
2025-10-03 23:40:36
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Layla.A 💋 :
Your topic is always the best
2025-10-07 10:13:11
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Ursula :
The most interesting people- both friends and family and then obviously future romantic partners, are people who constantly grow and invest in themselves.
It doesn't really matter how you grow or invest, as long as you do. You can join a gardening club, the gym, so for surgery, volunteer at a shelter, give art lessons, take up tennis. But do stuff. If you are not much of a doer, but more of a thinker, an intellectual person- then have new ideas to share.
My relationships gets stale when people constantly tell me the same stories. If you grow as a person you will have new stories to tell.
A bonus is someone of actually love humanity and doesn't have a constant bone to pick with others.
2025-10-03 21:12:53
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Liz :
LOL girl I have OCD lmao the reassurance isn’t that going to go away over night 😂
2025-10-04 04:18:37
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N Good :
even now after 10yrs of marriage, I still have my friends and make sure I am always in a good place to be happy with or without him. He is the best husband but you never know what can happen and never want to lose my independence
2025-10-06 20:50:39
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seiraamss9g :
Anxious pre occupied are like that and most of them are very kind and good hearted women
2025-10-04 01:41:23
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JayBird :
what if you don't have a full life? what if you have anxious wounds that can eventually be fixed but not just yet? so many genuine questions
2025-10-06 20:45:37
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Godisallpowerful777 :
Girl where were you 2 and half years ago !!! Now you tell me.
2025-10-06 02:49:59
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The Pragmatist :
This is good advice 💚.
2025-10-04 20:45:04
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pierwszedrugie722 :
Wow yes yes yes
2025-10-03 20:38:42
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Christina Rauschert :
Hit the save button to refer to later! 👏🥰
2025-10-04 04:35:06
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Tash-baby💛 :
LOVE that last one, having your own life is key 🔑
2025-10-05 04:29:10
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Isabella Grillo :
Oops I failed
2025-10-04 23:33:20
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TabooMartian :
She's 101% right ladies😮
2025-10-05 07:12:22
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Summer :
But isn’t reassuring someone necessary, not excessively but here and there. Cause I get none even when I’ve asked, so obv there is doubt
2025-10-09 06:43:09
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4shadesofbrownn :
You are actively changing my life. Every video is helping me become who I am meant to be not some insecure woman
2025-10-05 18:54:37
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LiveLaughToasterBath :
Anxiously attached people are always asking, does he like me?! And basing their happiness on that. Securely attached people ask do I like him? Does this relationship make me fell good?
2025-10-04 10:13:00
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zip ⁷ :
the first one is soooo🙄🙄🙄
2025-10-05 05:44:27
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