@melrobbins: At the end of the day, the most important question in a relationship is simple: Do they feel like home? If you’ve got that - plus loyalty, kindness, and someone who treats people well - you’ve hit the jackpot. Everything else? Those are just skills. And skills can be learned. Thank you @Brooke Miccio and @DANIELLE CAROLAN for having me on this episode of the @Gals on the Go podcast!!! I had the best time chatting with both of you about all things Let Them and more. Listen now 🎧 "listen to this if you’re in your 20s!!! with MEL ROBBINS" #melrobbins #letthem #relationshipadvice #galsonthego
This is not great advice. Because feeling like “home” can be chaotic. Home could’ve been violent, unhealthy and toxic.
2025-10-04 16:59:13
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sweetbutterfly686 :
what if he has all great qualities except that he's cheap 😢😢 what do i do???
2025-10-04 15:21:04
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AmazingAmy513 :
My family treats me terribly and all my friends have hurt me so I have none does that make me a bad future wife? I have everything otherwise
2025-10-04 14:19:55
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Eliana :
You're such an amazing writer, podcast host, speaker...
Love your book, it helped so much and is still doing an amazing job in my life ❤
2025-10-04 13:44:33
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rlean78T 🌺 :
Yes this is so accurate I totally feel this🥰im the boy but a girl brought up by a man.I know my husband feels this coming hom too🥰
2025-10-04 14:35:45
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Brooke Miccio :
Such an amazing conversation
2025-10-04 16:14:08
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Carolina C :
I will keep this advice in mind for future reference…
2025-10-04 15:57:35
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RST :
Yes! Found mine 4 months after with the avoidant ex for 7 years and we are getting married this December! Yay!
2025-10-04 14:47:11
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peony 💫 :
My husband truly is my safe space the amount of times I’ve held my tears in until I was in his arms where I could just literally cry and know he’s not going to let me fall, he’s foreal my rock
2025-10-04 16:00:25
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emily322__ :
Home was chaos. He makes me feel calm
2025-10-04 15:00:34
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uzbekequeen :
Literally feels like home when I’m around him 🥹
2025-10-04 14:31:58
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Denise Perea :
Yes!
2025-10-04 14:39:27
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Meg :
They make me feel like that at first and then they change
2025-10-04 14:47:49
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ZaddyJer :
I’m so glad I heard this today ❤
2025-10-04 14:30:59
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Aliss w krainie bez schematów :
I had it all, but he was emotionally immature — he gave me the silent treatments, was jealous, and a bit of a control freak. I had to leave… but I still miss him. 😪
2025-10-04 17:21:38
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Téjah Erin | Favorite Yapper :
I love this ❤
2025-10-04 17:33:29
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DANIELLE CAROLAN :
Love this so much Mel
2025-10-04 14:04:44
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Flo Letswalo :
Yes, yes, and yes 🥰🙏
2025-10-04 17:10:16
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Jenni :
Thank you Mel your amazing
2025-10-04 16:35:06
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Rissatalks_alot :
This so refreshing to hear coming being in my generation.😮💨
2025-10-04 17:05:49
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Jean :
😭😭 Yes !!
2025-10-04 17:38:55
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marycstina :
I agree but I would also caution the “do they feel like home?” portion only because some people grew up with an unsafe home (emotionally, physically etc) or home of chaos and sometimes that’s what has drawn them in without them realizing it. So if it feels like home, question it a little bit more for yourself and make sure that “home” feeling includes all the other elements Mel mentions like being able to exhale and feel loyalty etc 🫶🏼
2025-10-04 16:34:42
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Truth Teller :
That was my wife when we were first married. Now, I'm happiest when I'm not around her. 😳
2025-10-04 16:51:07
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csaenz00 :
👏👏👏love this 😏
2025-10-04 16:24:05
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