@mcgflurryx: parang dati lang humahagulgol na ako pag ganyan pero now yabang q na hihihi 🙂‍↔️ #wlw #fyp #foryou

Xiuu :

saang part yan na nag bibigay assurance ang mga may avoidant? HAHAHA

˙⋆✮ kyle ˙⋆✮ :

this suits for the people who are willing to improve themselves and hindi puro sarili ang iniisip 😶‍🌫️kung hindi willing yung isa to commit and compromise edi wala talagang mangyayari. it will always depend sa person kahit anong attachment man yan

𝓣🍒 :

wala na ngang assurance hndi pa siya sure samin HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHH

yana :

nagbibigay ng assurance ang avoidant???

koa NLU :

ay neng first phase palang yan, wala na kami ngayon HAHAHA

Mycroft :

lugi si anxious lagi HAHAHAHA di kayo tatagos sa avoidant. ibang breed mga yan e

sammy 🍵💐 :

i have anxious attachment while my bf has the opposite. ive tried learning and understanding his behavior, even tried to lay out options on what to do for me to not feel threatened of being left alone while i give him space. it’s been 6 years, wala pa rin na a-apply. i always end up spiraling whenever we argue because he leaves me hanging in silence. im starting to think di talaga mag wo-work, lalo na’t he refuses to meet me where i’m at. now, i’m starting to change, i’ve lost the energy to talk things over even as little as they are. kaya lesson learned, as much as possible, we avoid avoidants and vice versa (unless we end up with a person who’s actually willing to work things out).

Pia Ysabelle :

THIS!! GRABE PINOST MO PA TALAGA SITUATION KO AH

louise ! ๋࣭ ⭑⚝ :

no matter what attachment style you have, both parties have to choose to actively become better individually. si anxious can be given reassurance pero also have to give themselves that reassurance as well. si avoidant can be given space but should also tackle why they pull away in the presence of vulnerability to be able to actually communicate.

beyatris :

gagana lang yan kung gusto nyo talaga ipanalo parehas

Euri. :

base on my experience, una lang iyan akala nila wala na healed na :p ending iiwan ka parin nan.

ً :

reminder lang sana na huwag ninyo abusuhin partner ninyo. not because they can handle you tapos they understand you, eh aabusuhin na ninyo kasi mapapagod ’yan, sinasabi ko sa inyo. dapat i-work ninyo ’yong sa ganiyan

️santi ⚡️ :

di talaga uubra ang anxious x avoidant kahit pilitin nio pa yan 🤣🤣

:< :

antayin mo lang magiging avoidant ka din

Lust :

sana ma-try

souL :

😼 :

Greedsxz :

did this for a year and still got cheated on 3 times by the same girl😭

s2pd :

Been there before. i’m the one who’s anxious and he’s avoidant. At first, he really gives you assurance, but at the end of the day nakaka drain na kasi bigla yan mawawala tapos puro na reason hanggang sa mag tuloy tuloy. Until i found out he went back to his ex ++ he said he’s not ready for a relationship pa.

. :

this is me and my lover 😭

Yoh? :

she’s trying her best to give me assurance even though we’re not dating (she has avoidant), what does it mean?

kenit :

awww

tash 🧃 :

aray ko naman oh

blair 🏹💋 :

HWHAHAHAJAJAJAJAJAAJAJA

stepanyyy_fayeee :

iniwan ako tapos naghanap na ng iba