@mackenzieherman: Replying to @Nina 4th option, don’t respond to a breadcrumb. You deserve the whole loaf! Keep your boundaries clear, and know your plan of action. #breadcrumb #breadcrumbing #avoidant #attachmentstyle #attachmentstyles
lol I tried to keep light and a little humor and boy did she read through that.
2025-10-08 02:16:40
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Bella 💕 :
Honestly, if you’re only getting breadcrumbs, you’re probably at the wrong bakery 🍞
2025-10-07 14:39:08
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Mike 🇮🇹 :
Access requires intention. Well put! The best statement ever. 👍
2025-10-08 00:20:16
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TH ♋️ 📚 :
or you just walk away as every text is still an invite
2025-11-09 06:25:14
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HB :
Help!!! He sent me an essay taking accountability and apologising for how he treated me but said “I wish you all the best” how do I respond to this???
2025-10-09 11:20:49
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DaWood1738 :
😂 I did #2 and my ex said “that I’m the problem” 🤔
2025-10-14 03:44:51
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Thomas.krb :
What about this “ hey I’m not interested in casual checkins or nostalgia drops. If you want to reconnect it has to be clear and intentional. Otherwise, I’m not open to talk and I’ll keep moving forward alone. I’ve already accepted my path, you’re either in with clarity, or I’m at peace without you.” Cause that’s the truth really
2025-10-08 11:10:35
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Isa :
Saw this video in the morning, saw her today in class, said #1 almost verbatim, she did NOT like that 😂 thank you so much. I finally feel like I have closure and my power back after protesting at first
2025-11-07 02:37:21
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MyrtleTheSnappingTurtle :
Text back: “Bruh stop texting me. Damn”
2025-10-07 23:45:49
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Alex :
Does the avoidant usually come back? He blocked me after a messy breakup. Unblocked me after a month. We texted for two days that turned into me begging again.. then got reblocked and it’s been 3 weeks again
2025-10-10 17:34:52
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Stephanie :
I don’t want to hear from him. I don’t even want to know what he would say. I think being ghosted is God protecting me.
2025-10-14 18:01:26
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Datwilightsaga :
thanks for these examples
2025-10-15 08:09:29
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JRod- :
What about if someone ghosted you without an explanation? Deletes you from social media and sharing location.
2025-10-08 23:55:56
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Jared :
Someone unblocked me to say happy birthday then blocked me again 🙄
2025-10-09 09:23:37
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Greys4Days :
I'm stuck in the endless small talk and casual check-ins but they're all done in person and never via text. I need to work up the nerve to set this boundary. Thanks!
2025-10-07 16:03:39
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user3963857271977 :
So good
2025-10-08 14:38:27
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nataliaaldacourla :
He came back. Said that he was completely overwhelmed work : life .. but wants me in his life. Has planned since being back two mini vacations and one BIG one for Xmas. He said yesterday that he leaning how to manage his emotions and is choosing to stay when feeling overwhelmed- instead of running - “bc that’s the healing process “ .
2025-10-07 15:09:58
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Amanda :
I said "who is this" when he came back 🤣
2025-10-09 17:55:29
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SuperGirl :
luv the 3rd one
2025-10-09 00:12:21
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Mirjam 🥰 :
Is asking to come pick up belongings also considered a breadcrumb? When there is nothing important you can think of to be picked up
2025-10-09 17:39:55
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Lauren Stephanie :
Thank you so much for this! 🙏 💕
2025-10-31 23:09:47
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breahnnafrasier :
I love the fact that you sympathize at the end with what we're going through. Sometimes you're the only one anybody talks to. 😏
2025-10-29 00:59:51
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kat :
This is so good
2025-10-16 16:01:14
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